Re: Why do guys play hard to get??
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Capybara wrote:
Guys don't go gushing out their feelings like a waterfall. We don't mean it, honest.
I'd prefer it if guys who liked me did keep some stuff inside =_= Mostly they're overly emotional.
Guys probably do it as a test, everyone tests everyone, security. I test everyone, I get tested back. I'd say very few people would be brave enough to dive head first into a relationship with someone without figuring them out a bit.
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...Now that I think about it, I might not be the best judge of that... it's been quite a while since I met a woman I didn't find morally reprehensible.
Now that I think about it, I could say the same of men... good god, I really do not like many people.
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I wanted to use the "Powder my hand" scene but it wasn't on youtube. ;.;
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Potestas wrote:
Haileyvoir wrote:
Guys play hard to get because:
A) They're oblivious
B) They want to look cool
C) Their mind's are all like "ADERP DERP"
D) They may be intimidated, especially by upfront and outspoken women like me. (Even more so if the gal knows how to throw a punch)
But then again, girls are just as hard to get as guys. Even to this day, I don't understand my own species.
Wait, I know why. Because all that stupid emotion crap is retarded. If I want to ask someone out I go right up to their face, look 'em in the eye, and completely fumble my lines because my mind travels faster than my mouth!
A) They're oblivious
B) They want to look cool
C) Their mind's are all like "ADERP DERP"
D) They may be intimidated, especially by upfront and outspoken women like me. (Even more so if the gal knows how to throw a punch)
But then again, girls are just as hard to get as guys. Even to this day, I don't understand my own species.
Wait, I know why. Because all that stupid emotion crap is retarded. If I want to ask someone out I go right up to their face, look 'em in the eye, and completely fumble my lines because my mind travels faster than my mouth!
Will you marry me?
Depends. How much money're you willing to spend? Because whatever you offer, my price will always be a doller more. Because I can.
See, I'm playing hard to get. How would YOU respond?
AHA AHA AHA AHA. What am I getting at.
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Haileyvoir wrote:
Potestas wrote:
Haileyvoir wrote:
Guys play hard to get because:
A) They're oblivious
B) They want to look cool
C) Their mind's are all like "ADERP DERP"
D) They may be intimidated, especially by upfront and outspoken women like me. (Even more so if the gal knows how to throw a punch)
But then again, girls are just as hard to get as guys. Even to this day, I don't understand my own species.
Wait, I know why. Because all that stupid emotion crap is retarded. If I want to ask someone out I go right up to their face, look 'em in the eye, and completely fumble my lines because my mind travels faster than my mouth!
A) They're oblivious
B) They want to look cool
C) Their mind's are all like "ADERP DERP"
D) They may be intimidated, especially by upfront and outspoken women like me. (Even more so if the gal knows how to throw a punch)
But then again, girls are just as hard to get as guys. Even to this day, I don't understand my own species.
Wait, I know why. Because all that stupid emotion crap is retarded. If I want to ask someone out I go right up to their face, look 'em in the eye, and completely fumble my lines because my mind travels faster than my mouth!
Will you marry me?
Depends. How much money're you willing to spend? Because whatever you offer, my price will always be a doller more. Because I can.
See, I'm playing hard to get. How would YOU respond?
AHA AHA AHA AHA. What am I getting at.
Who knows?
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Saying that, I'm recently enjoy just rambling at random people so I seem like a freak to most people, hurrah! Try laughing for no 'apparant' reason while walking around a shop or down the street.. it sometimes can be fun or not.
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SerialVER wrote:
People in general are hard to 'get'.
Saying that, I'm recently enjoy just rambling at random people so I seem like a freak to most people, hurrah! Try laughing for no 'apparant' reason while walking around a shop or down the street.. it sometimes can be fun or not.
Saying that, I'm recently enjoy just rambling at random people so I seem like a freak to most people, hurrah! Try laughing for no 'apparant' reason while walking around a shop or down the street.. it sometimes can be fun or not.
I do that on and off D: Though its because I remember something funny and laugh and I get odd stares...
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Aura wrote:
I think girls are really the ones who do that. Guys are more just oblivious. I don't mean that in a bad way, they just aren't all 'zomg pay attention to emotions' all the time.
I think I know what you mean. Most of the guys I know are all like, "Love, ewwww!" But really, I think they're secertly little romeos. XD
Greeny wrote:
If you'd ask me I'd say it's fairly easy for a girl to get a guy. I don't see how a guy can be that 'hard to get'.
Hahaha, I wish. XD
DoMaya wrote:
Most guys are just Dicks... You can't help it, You can't change it, Life goes on. 
Lol, I've figured out guys are dicks already. But I thought there may be something else to it, like Guys actually having dating tactics. XD
DoMaya wrote:
Oh and who is this guy!? huh!? I thought we had something special! *shot*
Hahhaa, there's no guy, I'm just curious. You know I love all you guys. XD
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LOL! Yeah, me being a foamy fangirl doesn't exactly make me seem like the shy type -_- haha
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ScaryWomanizngPigMsk wrote:
Part of it might just be being naively oblivious as well. I know I am >.<
So for guys to get the idea, girls need to say it outright? Because in most cases, that ain't gonna happen. :p
Steel Samurai wrote:
Simple answer: They don't know what else they should be doing, they need more time think than girls do because being soft and this "relationship"-thing is new to them.
So it's a game to guys? I thought someone somewhere said the opposite. o_o
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There is very little such thing as "playing hard to get". I don't care what you think, you cannot be subtle to a teenage boy. Chances are, if he thinks there is a possibility that you are hitting on him or something, he will just assume he's misinterpreting you. Look at it this way: if he assumes you're hitting on him and he responds to it, but you're not, he will be crushed or feel retarded. He is not being hard to get, he is being safe.
I cannot say this enough. Be blunt and be retardedly blunt if you're trying to confess.
I'm not going to read through this thread, but I assume it's just full of misinterpretations and bad answers.
If you come across an older post of mine, sowwy
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Holy Hell wrote:
Word of advice for all teenage girls.
There is very little such thing as "playing hard to get". I don't care what you think, you cannot be subtle to a teenage boy. Chances are, if he thinks there is a possibility that you are hitting on him or something, he will just assume he's misinterpreting you. Look at it this way: if he assumes you're hitting on him and he responds to it, but you're not, he will be crushed or feel retarded. He is not being hard to get, he is being safe.
I cannot say this enough. Be blunt and be retardedly blunt if you're trying to confess.
I'm not going to read through this thread, but I assume it's just full of misinterpretations and bad answers.
There is very little such thing as "playing hard to get". I don't care what you think, you cannot be subtle to a teenage boy. Chances are, if he thinks there is a possibility that you are hitting on him or something, he will just assume he's misinterpreting you. Look at it this way: if he assumes you're hitting on him and he responds to it, but you're not, he will be crushed or feel retarded. He is not being hard to get, he is being safe.
I cannot say this enough. Be blunt and be retardedly blunt if you're trying to confess.
I'm not going to read through this thread, but I assume it's just full of misinterpretations and bad answers.
XD I see what you mean. There probably isn't such thing, but there are a few choice boys who will do that, usually the stuck up jocks. Being blunt to a boy is hard, especially for shy girls with low self esteem like me. Being blunt means that he'll either respond positively, which will seem an unlikely outcome for this type of girl, or a blunt confession will either result in a blunt rejection or a wishy-washy-let's-not-hurt-your-feelings rejection.
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Well.. not really love it. But if a guy plays me hard to get, I'm all about trying harder to get his attention, and desperately trying to play hard to ge to (even though I fail pretty much.)
Most girls just like attention, and the fact they're not getting it winds 'em up.
Love's just a game. And it takes time to know how to play it well.
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Holy Hell wrote:
Word of advice for all teenage girls.
There is very little such thing as "playing hard to get". I don't care what you think, you cannot be subtle to a teenage boy. Chances are, if he thinks there is a possibility that you are hitting on him or something, he will just assume he's misinterpreting you. Look at it this way: if he assumes you're hitting on him and he responds to it, but you're not, he will be crushed or feel retarded. He is not being hard to get, he is being safe.
I cannot say this enough. Be blunt and be retardedly blunt if you're trying to confess.
I'm not going to read through this thread, but I assume it's just full of misinterpretations and bad answers.
There is very little such thing as "playing hard to get". I don't care what you think, you cannot be subtle to a teenage boy. Chances are, if he thinks there is a possibility that you are hitting on him or something, he will just assume he's misinterpreting you. Look at it this way: if he assumes you're hitting on him and he responds to it, but you're not, he will be crushed or feel retarded. He is not being hard to get, he is being safe.
I cannot say this enough. Be blunt and be retardedly blunt if you're trying to confess.
I'm not going to read through this thread, but I assume it's just full of misinterpretations and bad answers.
I've a tl;dr version of your post HH.
It goes like this :
"Are you putting out?
If yes : Yes.
If no : You're being far fucking too subtle."
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Greeny wrote:
If you'd ask me I'd say it's fairly easy for a girl to get a guy. I don't see how a guy can be that 'hard to get'.
this :D
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Lind_L_Tailor wrote:
Let me be blunt here: there is probably no such thing as playing hard to get. It's most likely a long-running misinterpretation of various actions. One such example could be this: They're not playing hard to get, they're just genuinely not interested.
Agreed. It can often be misinterpretated because many guys just don't have the balls to tell the girl straight in the face that they are not interested in her.
If a guy is really interested in a girl, he doesn't play hard to get. He'll jump her the very first opportunity he gets. xD
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_Yoakin_ wrote:
Lind_L_Tailor wrote:
Let me be blunt here: there is probably no such thing as playing hard to get. It's most likely a long-running misinterpretation of various actions. One such example could be this: They're not playing hard to get, they're just genuinely not interested.
Agreed. It can often be misinterpretated because many guys just don't have the balls to tell the girl straight in the face that they are not interested in her.
If a guy is really interested in a girl, he doesn't play hard to get. He'll jump her the very first opportunity he gets. xD
Sounds a lot like me XD
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Widgey wrote:
I didn't think that I play "hard to get".
You probably don't.
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What is important about that? Well if you are either of the above you wont last long with the person your trying to get.
Also there is no such thing as love but thats a different story.
Nothing.
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I'm free, I'm single. I like to take long walks in the park, taking in new sights and sounds and live music, my favorite colour is blue and I'm a taurus.
There, not playing hard to get. Rawr.
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Greeny wrote:
You know, honestly, if it's anyone who's playing hard to get it's the girls.
Seconded
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Greeny wrote:
You know, honestly, if it's anyone who's playing hard to get it's the girls.
Yeah really, notice how I changed the post subject. Some guys do this, but it's too much trouble to go through, in my opinion. And It can likely send the message that your disinterested.
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SerialVER wrote:
Lets see...
I'm free, I'm single. I like to take long walks in the park, taking in new sights and sounds and live music, my favorite colour is blue and I'm a taurus.
There, not playing hard to get. Rawr.
Not sure if I've done this joke before or not.
I'm free, I'm single. I like to take long walks in the park, taking in new sights and sounds and live music, my favorite colour is blue and I'm a taurus.
There, not playing hard to get. Rawr.
Not sure if I've done this joke before or not.
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First of all, this is just mostly me speaking from people that are older and wiser and me whilst I assume you're all teenagers with crazy hormones.
Anyway...
There are three reasons guys play hard to get.
1: The guy is just a dick trying to mess with your heartstrings. He's waiting for you to get to the point where you'll do anything to get him (not that I'm saying you will do anything) to be your boyfriend. At that point you're just being used to eventually become arm candy and/or something for him to do. This one usually is given to the generic jock.
2: The guy is really really shy and is too socially awkward to even think about getting near a girl (who, depending on his maturity, may or may not have cooties) let alone dating one. This is given to the generic nerd, though this one is really the most common.
3: The guy happens to have older, wiser people to listen to who tell him how to get a good relationship going. This one believes that he doesn't need to date, and actually wants it to be special when he meets the one. If he does date, he is usually not the kind of guy to have a super romantic relationship, trying to keep it more like a casual friendship where you say you're dating, so all you girls who want to find some bou you can just kiss on better stay away.. This one is usually part of the more religious crowd.
I personally am part of 2 and three.
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Then again, none of them like me.
Oh well.
I'll just go back to dreaming about having an anime girl as my girlfriend.
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Greeny wrote:
You know, honestly, if it's anyone who's playing hard to get it's the girls.
Mmm, so you have experience with both?
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