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Author:  Romeo [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Bullying
Sorry if this isn't allowed, but i have to rant about this to someone who cares.

I really hate bullies/bullying. I'll tell you what happened today walking home, like 10 mins ago.

Two fat, stupid lazy shits came up to me and started pushing me around for no reason. bastards. Then, they grab my P.E kit and chuck it in the road, so I have to get it before a car comes. They are kicking my bag and my shins calling me a 'little Faggot' and pulling me around by my P.E kit calling me a dog. they go on to shove me into a wall and when I tell them to go away they didn't stop.

I fucking hate bullies. How about you lot, or are you lucky to not get this done to you every day without breaking down infront of them? :larry: My friends live far away so they take the bus and my dad was at work so i couldn't get a lift.
Phew, rant over. opinions, please.
Author:  Ninja Steve [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
There's no easy answer here. My best suggestion is to at least attempt to mind your own business. Otherwise, I'd try to find someone else to hang out with so that you aren't caught alone with such assholes.

I was never bullied, really. My school was filled with people more likely to ignore you to death than beat you to death.
Author:  Holy Hell [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Beat the shit out of them.
Author:  antonis [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
If they ever give you hassle ever again laugh at them.
Laugh at them hard and in their face.
And then when they are wondering why you are laughing HIT THEM!!!!

I went through something like that before. My advice? Join a club or a team that makes you strong (Like rowing or karate something like that) then you will be prepared for them if they ever come near you.
If they ever do beat the shit out of them(If your a passiveist then it's pretty much game over for you) once you've done that they will never go ear you again and you can live in confidence that you have overcome the worst kind of people..
Well at least thats how it works here I dont know if bullies (Or bastards as I call them) function the same way where you guys are from.
Author:  34Chan [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Holy Hell wrote:
Beat the shit out of them.
Author:  General Luigi [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
People like those need to be taught a lesson, preferably by the police. I've never been in a situation like that, but I'd certainly advocate fighting back, since it's in self-defense--although if they're smart, they might use that to make you look like the aggressor.
Author:  Romeo [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
thanks for the help guys, i do archery so when i next bring in my bow and arrow to school lets just say the safety tip will be mysteriously dissapeared... Na, can't beat 'em up, they're huge. HUGE. I'm pretty small and thin, they're fat and tall. I have lotsa friends so I will gang up on em or tell the most bitchy teacher i know.
Author:  antonis [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
General Luigi wrote:
People like those need to be taught a lesson, preferably by the police. I've never been in a situation like that, but I'd certainly advocate fighting back, since it's in self-defense--although if they're smart, they might use that to make you look like the aggressor.


Anyone who's stupid enough to pick on innocent people definatly isnt smart enough to make you look bad if you retaliate also i'm sure the police wont come just because two kids are picking on you.
Author:  Marche Tobaye [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
I was bullied for about four years. Then I changed school and now I'm fine.
Author:  WittyVitale [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 5:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
That really sucks Scarred_owl, I'm so sorry you're being forced to deal with crap like this. If you haven't done so already, I'd recommend reporting these guys to an authority figure whom you trust. And the self defense course idea is a good one too. Self defense classes will give you more skills with which to deal with bullying situations. I've never been physically bullied, but I did experience a little verbal abuse in high school :( I hope things get better for you.
Author:  Louise [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 6:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
When I was 13 my bully got me when was by herself (she was usually with friends) and shoved me into a door, I was having a bad day anyway so turned around and kicked her in the minge. Then when she was on the floor I kicked her in the stomach and twatted her in the face with my bag. It was my PE bag, with a big can of deodorant in 8D

She never came near me again.

I hope they stop soon. Just know that you're better than them :think:
Author:  General Luigi [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
antonis wrote:
Anyone who's stupid enough to pick on innocent people definatly isnt smart enough to make you look bad if you retaliate also i'm sure the police wont come just because two kids are picking on you.

You'd be surprised. I've read about bullying victims getting suspended when they fought back; the bully made it look like he was the victim. I've also read about the police intervening against bullies. It's easy to think of bullies as stupid, but there are smart people among them.
Author:  Romeo [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Yet again, this has really helped guys, thanks for making my day. We have P.E tommorow, football. Lets just say (again) my metal studded football boots might 'accidentally' get thrown at these two...
Author:  Bad Player [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Kick them, don't throw your boots at them. If you miss, then now they're the ones with metal-studded boots.
Author:  neoswordmaster [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 7:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Seriously don't resort to physical action. It seems that you are not going to kick thier buts anytime soon with your description of yourself and them. I reccomend that you report them as soon as possible if they are really causing you a problem.
Author:  Holy Hell [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 8:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Resort to physical violence and go apeshit on their asses

beat

the

shit

out

of

them
Author:  LySs [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Holy Hell wrote:
Resort to physical violence and go apeshit on their asses

beat

the

shit

out

of

them


This.

Back in my freshman year of high school, there was this hambeast that would ram her shoulder into mine everytime she'd pass me by. She beat me up a couple of times back in Jr. High so she still had this eternal hate for me for some reason.

Then one day, while I was waiting at the bus stop for the bus to arrive after school, the hambeast decides to walk up to me and stand there. I walk away to another corner, she follows me.
I walk away again, she still follows me. She sees it as a game as she smilies this big fat ugly smirk that rested atop her chin rolls.
I felt threatened and thought she was going to punch me when I least expected it, so I took a defense stance (I was taking karate at the time), and just punched her in the face. We broke out into a brawl until the security guard came and brought us both into the school.
We were both suspended for one day because it was school law, but it wasn't going on my permanent record. (Plus the teachers were on my side, and saw it as self defense.)

Well needless to say, she never rammed into my shoulder or looked my way ever again.

I guess you could say in this situation that I was the wrong one for hitting her first, but I felt threatened and thought I should strike before she could.


But yeah, try to fight back. If you don't know how, try taking up self-defense if you can.
Author:  DeMatador [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
HH's post here.

Looby, yours is the best example. You beated the hell out of her. Excellent job, IMO.

Just.
Find a way to knock them down, then kick them. Really fucking hard. It'll be the best feeling you'll experiment in your entire lifetime. Believe me, been there, done that. It was awesome.

Just make sure they aren't in any gang. Those guys have Uzis and shit. Stay away from them.
Author:  DoMaya [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Here's what you do; go buy a can of Axe, get a Zippo lighter, and when those fuckers try to mess with you again you flick open the Zippo and spray them with the Axe through the fire.

That'll scare the shit out of them AND convince them you're batshit crazy.

And nobody want's to fight a crazy person.
Author:  Floran [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 10:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
I can't stand bully's, luckily I have never been through it. A year ago (or longer) I saw a group of guys (4 of them... )takin' on someone, he wasn't bad looking or anything, they were pushing him around till he was on the ground... they kicked the hell out of him. I really couldn't take it anymore, so I first shouted to stop. They just ignored me, y'know... that's when it all got black for my eyes, if I didn't do something quickly, who know what might happened to him.

I don't think I have the balls for it on a regular day, but I was somewhat pissed that day already, so that really crossed the line. I ran in, pushed the guy away who was bending over him kicked a small guy to the ground. I kicked the guy on the ground twice in his stomach (I felt sorry for it afterwards.., but it felt awesome). The other two were takin' on me (at the very moment it didn't really hurt, but darn it did afterwards..) finally a few surrounders had the balls to help me too. Then they ran off like pussy's. The guy who was the victim was okay, the reason they beat the shit of him was 'cause he was just quiet in class. (or at least he thought it was something like that) He just couldn't stand up for himself... never seen him afterwards, I hope everything worked out fine for him.

So all I can say 'bout it... I don't think ignoring will help you out, sometimes it's the best to shut them up. Do it smart though, not a place near school or anything.
Author:  L_J [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
get evidence and then get the police on them.


i'd recommend beating them up too, but it depends on the circumstances. personally, i prefer public humiliation.
Author:  dullahan1 [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
If you can't stand up for yourself, they're gonna walk all over you.
Author:  Millini [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Yeah, just do what HH said, and open up a fresh can of "I'm gonna kick your fucking ass" on them.
Author:  Robin Goodfellow [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
L_J wrote:
get evidence and then get the police on them.


This.

While I've never been physically bullied, based on what I've seen where I live if you fight back (even if they damn well deserve it) you're going to end up with consequences because schools typically don't believe that fighting violence with violence solves anything >_>.

But, if these idiots DO end up taking things too far and you need to hit back, aim for the kneecaps. Then run like hell.
Author:  Yaragorm [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 12:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
I'm glad I don't have bullies in my school....except for people who ask to borrow money and always forget to give it back.........I hate those guys. :edgeworth:
Author:  Bad Player [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
L_J wrote:
get evidence and then get the police on them.

NO, THIS
Author:  LySs [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Robin Goodfellow wrote:

But, if these idiots DO end up taking things too far and you need to hit back, aim for the kneecaps. Then run like hell.


No no. You need to aim for the shins.
Author:  L_J [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
LySs wrote:
Robin Goodfellow wrote:

But, if these idiots DO end up taking things too far and you need to hit back, aim for the kneecaps. Then run like hell.


No no. You need to aim for the shins.

personally, i prefer kicking in the crotch.
Author:  carbon monoxide [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
My friend taught me a few things that you can do to bullies to make them stop. And even cripple them in the process.

Here are a few tips.

Experiment when they've got you in a headlock. Try drilling your chin into certain places of their arm. If you get it right, it hurts like fuck.

Kicking the lower thigh in the back of the leg should drop them to their knees. You've then got height and mobility advantages.

If they punch you, grab their wrist and twist it so their elbow faces the ground. Then deliver a crushing blow upwards to that elbow. You should hurt them like hell, if not breaking their arm the joint.

There are soft spots where the torso joins the arm. Jabbing those points should disable their arms (If you do it hard enough.)

Grab at their throat. Squeeze the veins and tubes in the front, but not too hard or you might seriously injure them.

Generally, go for their joints. (And crotch, if they're male)

And if all else fails, just call the police. The bullies there have committed felonies including larceny, vandalism, assault...etc.
Author:  LySs [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
L_J wrote:
LySs wrote:
Robin Goodfellow wrote:

But, if these idiots DO end up taking things too far and you need to hit back, aim for the kneecaps. Then run like hell.


No no. You need to aim for the shins.

personally, i prefer kicking in the crotch.


Crotch doesn't always work if they're wimmin.
Especially hambeasts.
Author:  carbon monoxide [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
LySs wrote:
L_J wrote:
LySs wrote:

No no. You need to aim for the shins.

personally, i prefer kicking in the crotch.


Crotch doesn't always work if they're wimmin.
Especially hambeasts.


Hence my post above explaining other weak points.

In any case, you'll need to be somewhat physically fit. One blow that cripples a bully shouldn't get you in too much trouble. If he bitches about it to a teacher or whatnot, he'll lose face, which is something you know he ardently seeks (from the mere action of bullying). You're pretty safe.

And again, bullies v. cops, I'll put my money on the latter every single time.
Author:  LySs [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Another really fatal move is uppercutting them in the nose.

However, that could also cause death so I suggest not doing that. If anything, just throw a square shot to the nose, but don't use too much force to the point that you're pushing the bone into the brain.

Quote:
In any case, you'll need to be somewhat physically fit.


Not necessarily. It's more about technique than strength. You'd be surprised how many lanky and chubby people there were in my class when I used to take karate.
Author:  dullahan1 [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
You know, the funny thing is bullies could be reading this as well and are getting pointers on how to torture their victims as well as what to expect if their victim ever decides to fight back.
Author:  L_J [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
dullahan1 wrote:
You know, the funny thing is bullies could be reading this as well and are getting pointers on how to torture their victims as well as what to expect if their victim ever decides to fight back.

well at least they aren't getting pointers on how to avoid the police





ps move to canada
Author:  Romeo [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 6:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Well I've looked around and it seems the best option is to tell of them. When I say they're huge, I don't mean 10cm taller, I mean like 45cm taller. I could NOT get him to the ground unless when he charged at me I ducked...but that would be a bad idea. No, me and my dad have a plan. I'm gonna walk home infront of these guys and my dad will follow (from a distance) behind the bullies. If they do ANYTHING to me, (which they won't because i'm telling my Head of year about this) my dad will run up to them and knock their teeth out. Thats precisely how my dad put it. I have an awesome dad!!! :redd:
anyway, i won't involve the police, and fighting just makes 'em want more. This shit has happened to me before and it was stopped by telling someone, not by fighting back. If your'e American, maybe american bullies are different to english ones...? They're chavs too. Oh lord, don't want their family throwing eggs at our house.
Author:  SnowWright [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 7:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Aw you shouldn't have to put up with those bastards.
Im lucky to go to a 'bully-free' school (though there are quite a lot of bitches :nick:)
Good luck dealing with them
they're just PATHETIC
Author:  DREWdesu [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 9:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Don't worry I have been bullied as well and I have also cried on and on about it.
But hey to let you know... you are not the loser here... they are the losers for actually doing all of this to you.
Well even though it is not a good idea to hold up the "OBJECTION"/"HOLD IT"/"TAKE THAT" sign in front of them, it is a good idea to stand up for yourself, talk to someone (even school counsellors), and your plan with your dad is a good idea.

Bullying can kill people and therefore IS A CRIME!

I rest my case (i just had to say that XD)
Author:  Coffee Prosecutor [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Ithink that´s really crap!
Bullying I mean
In my school they don´t punch u but they make u down psychally(like ignoring not integrating u because u have more weight,YES I have a bit more weight on my bones)That´s so annoying :larry: :larry: :larry: :larry: :larry: :larry:
BUT I can live with it!
Author:  Yellow Magician [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Stay in groups. It's not that hard to avoid bullies.
Author:  silentxfilmstar [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bullying
Wow, I've never seen physical bullying before... Everywhere I've been, it's just verbal bullying. It's good that you and your dad have come up with a plan, it kind of reminds me of something my mom would do. XD

I remember one time when I was in the 2nd grade, there were these two 3rd grade boys who always made fun of me when I would go home from school. They kicked my back pack and I think they pushed me around a few times. So one day, it was the last straw, so I ran home quickly enough so they wouldn't catch up with me, and told my mom. You do not want to mess with my mom, especially when it comes to her children. I pointed out the two boys to her and she ran out the door literally screaming at them. All I remember her saying was "HEY!! YOU TWO!!" she then stormed across the street and yelled at them for a few minutes. I don't know what she told them because I was still in my house, laughing at them. They were scared shitless and they ran home. The two boys then took a different route home and never bullied me again. :gant:

Other than that, I've never been bullied before. I have made fun of people to their face before, but it was never anything like, "oh, you're a fat ass" or "you're stupid" etc. It's hard to explain... I don't do it anymore because hello, I'm older and I know better, also, everybody does it just to make them feel better about themselves. That's not the kind of satisfaction I want, it's not right... :yuusaku:
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