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Joined: Sat Oct 20, 2012 7:44 pm
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You're too much like my cousin. Full of excuses. I can't even deal right now. I tried. Do whatever you want then.
Fuck you and saying that I'm making excuses. You don't know what I go through every day. I already told you that I've tried every option that's been offered here. It isn't my fault that they don't work. It's my environment around me that's the problem. You're the one who's being the most cold and apathetic. I don't need to here this shit from people like you.
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Why would you want to talk to a bunch of kids? Maybe to know them? To have fun? Age doesn't really matter as long as it's fun. I used to volunteer to help young children with their math history and such. Later I discovered that one of the kid liked manga and we use to talk about it, another one, a young girl, was indian and we both asked about our culture and such. We had around 10 years in difference.
Yes, because as a 16 year old, I REALLY want to talk with children who are 5-10. Normally I say age is arbitrary, but not in this case. I can talk to older people just fine. I'm not spending my time with kids. Honestly, I can't stand them to tell you the truth.
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You say everyone is an idiot. How the fuck do you know if you just consider them as idiots. I assume you don't talk to anyone.
I NEVER said everyone is an idiot. I said that they were shallow and snobbish. That's a big difference. My thinking isn't any higher or lower than there's. It's just different. And since it's different, I can't connect to anyone.
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Why don't you talk to the librairian/Teachers? They are humans too and can share some experience with you.
I do talk to some teachers. But they're not friends, they're staff of the school. There's only so much they can do and there's very little time during the school day.
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Why don't you join a club about something. Maybe one which as no links to school, like a jogging club,theater troup, a gardening club, a drawing club, a manga club, a food club, etc.
Because where I live is small, and you see the same people. Besides, I've joined tons of clubs before. I never meet anyone different, and just because I have one or two shared interests, doesn't mean that they view me as friends.
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Why don't you do something to forget about your ex? I will once again repeat myself, your life shouldn't be over because one girl left you. A girl that you don't seem to understand well as it is. You are starting to sound like a broken record. Go out and meet other people being on the net or on real life.
I talk to people on the Internet, but they live thousands of miles away. That's no substitute for human companionship in my life. And as I've said a hundred times, I can't leave where I'm living so I can't meet new people.
I've already told you that I'm broken up over this, because I don't have anything else to live for in my life. If I had friends or people in my life that cared, I wouldn't be this way.
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Sure doesn't seem that way. I can't recall a single incidence of you saying "Alright...if you're sure I'll try that", from as far as I can remember you've always just said "That doesn't work" from the get go. Granted maybe you have actually just done it all but a little evidence other than "That doesn't work" would be nice. Though have you ever tried looking up a support website? I'm sure you aren't the only broken heart out there and there's almost certainly helplines and forums for depression.
You can choose to believe me or not. That isn't my problem. And in the majority of the cases I've told you WHY that particular piece of advice doesn't work. No, I have my psychologist for those things.
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In any case you missed or disregarded the important bit. Where I said that you aren't alone and that we support you. You've claimed no one cares and no one helps you and yet we've all offered you advice.
Even if the advice isn't effective the INTENT is there, people are trying to help you and support you with your problem when they could have said nothing.
And I'm grateful assuming that the intent is there. But you also have to remember that in my real life, the life that I live every day and go through, none of you are part of that. It's in my own life where I'm alone and no one cares. Talking to people on the Internet is fine, I guess. But to me, I have to have companionship that I can actually experience.
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"Insanity - doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
Fuck you. I don't need that kind of shitty advice by accusing me of insanity. I'm not intentionally doing the "same thing over and over again." I'm experiencing it. Every day is the same for me, and I can't change it. No matter what I do.
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You're not seriously suggesting a person like him, who is so downtrodden and sad, would be good company for children, elders or homeless people, right?
Don't make assumptions. I can interact with these kinds of people when it's need. It's not hard to put on a face.
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Of course you have every right to feel this way, but stop fucking telling us every few da-... *sigh* Mustn't get too emotional about this again.
Why do you think I'm saying this every day? Because these problems affect me EVERY DAY.
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So, what... had she strung you along for a few weeks, dropping increasingly-less-subtle hints about breaking up with you before breaking up with you wouldn't have been so bad? Call me a coldhearted bitch for this, but that's what it sounds like.
You are a coldhearted bitch with this. I asked her many times if she was happy with me and if she wanted to still be in a relationship. If it was that bad, she would have told me no. We were together for two and a half months. She never complained about anything, and her telling me this literally came out of nowhere.
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My heart bleeds for your mother and her frail health and all, but come on. You're fucking 16, right? How tight a leash is she gonna keep on you? Why not be all Rebel Teen and go somewhere yourself, you have a train ticket, right? (Unless train tickets work vastly different from Germany, then this might be more complicated)
Yes, I know that. It's fucking pathetic that I have these restrictions and that I can't go where I want. But that's how it is. She'd kill me if I went places I wasn't allowed to go. As much as I hate it, she is my mother and me being a minor, I have to follow her rules.
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That can be said about learning any language that is not necessary for someone's job or day-to-day life. So really, your father has no freaking basis to say this on.
I agree with that too. There's a lot of things that he has no basis to say either, since the only thing he's good at is violin and tennis. He never went through schooling and he doesn't understand how the American system works.
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No. You get mad at us for "ignoring" your posts. You get mad at us for trying to talk to you. No matter what we do, you always get mad at us. You say dealing with your Ex is like playing Russian Roulette where you tend to lose? Trying to do anything with you is like Russian Roulette will all bullet chambers filled and it's an automatically firing pistol.
Of course I'll get angry when people ignore me. Because I have enough of that in my real life. And I only get truly mad when people accuse me of things that are simply not true or when they make baseless assumptions on me. And as mentioned before, I get irritated when people repeat the same tired advice over and over again
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I'll let you in on a secret.
Not every psychologist is qualified to hold their title.
If your psychologist flat out tells you "you can't do anything to improve your situation" and just leaves it at that, it's time to find a new psychologist.
You can't control what other people do, you can only control your reactions to what they do.
No, he's very qualified.
http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/r ... ania_46522He's being realistic, guys. There really isn't anything I can do to improve my situation. I go to his office to talk to someone. It's free for me anyways, so I'm not getting scammed or anything.
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Also maybe try being less aggressive? I dunno, if you're like this with people in real life, or consider everyone to be "preppy snobs", of course you're not gonna make any friends. Give people the benefit of the doubt
I'm only aggressive because of how I've been treated my whole life. Trust me, when I'm with people, I know how to interact with them. But that's when I realize their true personalities and how shallow they are. Even those that seem to be decent turn out to be just as bad. This is from experience with people whom I thought were my "friends." They ended up moving on from me or focusing on other people.