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Well, I did an epic topic hunt and couldn't find anything like this. Sooo, here comes my first topic. Do you have an ex-friend? Somebody who used to be your friend, but is no longer due to serious or wacky reasons? Post here.

As for me... a few. Let me officially start this thread with a story about a girl named... well... lets call her... A.

Spoiler: WARNING: OLDBAG STYLED RAMBLING AHEAD
I started 6th grade probably a year ago. Near the start of the year, I befriended... lets call him Pokeman. Me and Pokeman were pretty good friends. I sat with him on the bus home everyday and we talked about video games and stuff. We even played Phoenix Wright a few times. So, one day, I walk to our regular seat and find him talking to someone. GUESS WHOOOOO?

Yup. A. So, I just sit down and mind my own buisness. He introduces me to A. Nothing too special, she seemed nice. Then he tells me about how he's helping A with her plan. I ask what it is.

"Operation Destroy Crystal"

Who the hell is Crystal? That's what I asked. Apparently, A was OBSESSED with a boy named Steve and Crystal was his ex-girlfriend. And A was creating a plan to KILL HER. ...At first, I thought it was just a joke and I even throw in a few weird suggestions. ...Oh, if only I knew.

So me and A started talking on a daily basis and we became friends. And as each day passed, her plans became more... detailed. ...Scarily detailed. This was getting creepy, but I shrugged it off. Anyway, A was becoming a really good friend of mine, even standing up for me whenever bullies come by. Kids started calling us boyfriend and girlfriend, but meh. Just rumors. So about 2 months or so later, it's lunch and I see A. I walk by to join her, she looks at me, and... runs away. She did this for about a week. I have no idea why, but I was told it was just normal teenage girl stuff. So I ignored it and I was back to my normal, mild-mannered self. I was eating lunch and guess who walks on by?

... A!

A: Well, well, look who it is...

Me: Oh, hey!

A: Hey... CONDORK!

Me: ...What?

That was the worst and most uncreative insult I have ever heard. "Hey, his name is Connor and I think he's a dork... I'M GONNA CALL HIM CONDORK HURR DE HURR". Anyway, back to the conversation...

A: Stop following me around, cause' I don't like you anymore! You're just a loser who keeps following me around! Y'know what!? YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH ME AND YOU DON'T WANNA ADMIT IT! GET A LIFE! *Runs off*

Me: ...What. The. Hell.

I never figured out why she just started hating me. I didn't do anything wrong, nothing that I knew of. Anyway, this is where it gets annoying. Every single day, she walked by and made fun of me. Every day. If she didn't wanna be my friend anymore, why didn't she just leave me alone? She even made friends with all the kids who made fun of me and teamed up with Steve to gang up on me. So, I bet you're wondering...

"Gee, Way, aren't you done yet...?"

No. Now shut up and listen. So one day, A comes on by. OH JOY. She keeps bugging me. And bugging me. And bugging me, ranting about how her precious Steve was way better then me. So what I do? I made a jab at Steve. Nothing major. Just a small jab at Steve. That should shut her up... and it did until SHE PICKED UP MY BACKPACK AND THREW IT ON THE ROOF AND BROKE THE DS INSIDE.

That's where it had to stop. So, I reported it. She had to tell her parents about it and try and pay me back. Fair... except she never told he parents. Ever.


Well, that was my long story. So, do you have any ex-friends? Why did you stop being their friends? Was it for sad reasons? Serious reasons? Silly reasons? Or a long Saderiousilly reason, like mine? Post about 'em here.
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Wow, seems like C-R has a topic for just about everything.

Ex-friends? I've got more exes in my life than current ones.

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I had a good group of friends for a few years (through grades 7-9). Unfortunately I started having some issues in my life around 9th grade (major depression, eating disorder, boyfriend-trouble) and instead of doing what I've heard true friends do (help, support?) they slipped out the back one by one.

The first one stopped talking to me because I was "too depressing". Didn't even bother to tell me that herself, I had to hear it from other people. She still acts like I'm air, even though we're in the same class.

The second one had the same reasoning, plus the claim that I was "in the way of her new friendships". This she told me over MSN, not to my face. Let's also add the facts that when she was "depressed" (depressed my a**, she made a few scratches on her shoulder and showed them off to EVERYONE, and when she was put in treatment she quit it and claimed that her faith saved her. Let's top it off, she completely bashed the way my depression is being treated and thought of me as a worse and weaker person for using a medication.)

Then there was a year older duo that just pretended I disappeared and never stayed in touch.
The fifth one went along with the duo.
The last one was in bad shape as it was and now she doesn't keep contact with me either.

So now I basically spend my days at school completely alone. Since everyone already knows me (on the surface) they don't want to have anything to do with me.

The "prime of my life" hasn't been that great so far.


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Ex-friends? I've got more exes in my life than current ones.

Same here. Reasons range from using me to get into my social circle (I know, "What the hell YM had a social circle?!") before disregarding me entirely, to religious issues (I can't be friends with people who say DEATH TO EVERYONE THAT DRAWS PROPHET MUHAMMAD), and also the odd "you hurt my feelings I will now hurt your feelings ten-fold see how you like that PUNK".

I have absolutely nothing in common with my current friends bar one or two and am looking forward to uni where there's a higher chance of finding people with similiar interests.

People often say you don't need to share hobbies to be good friends. They have no idea what they're talking about.
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i haev no frends anyway they wer all jealus of my looks ;_;


I never fall out with people, just drift apart .__.
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I realize that some of the older users may recognize this story, but it's been long enough that I see no harm in retelling it here.
Spoiler: From childhood...
I'm not sure exactly what age I was when I first became acquainted with :chinami: , but over the several years we knew each other, she poisoned me against girls so thoroughly that I wanted nothing to do with them for a long while.

Early on, we became close friends. I remember a time when I seriously thought I would marry her as soon as I grew up. It wasn't too long before the first signs of trouble began to show. :chinami: had an older brother ( :think: ) who knew exactly how to make me laugh. In a sense, he was my hero. He even introduced me to martial arts. This made :chinami: jealous. I found myself pulled uncomfortably in opposite directions. I liked both of them and wanted to play with both of them. Nothing wrong with that, right? Wrong, according to her. Whenever I wanted to play with :think: , she would make a show of her disappointment. Naturally, this tugged painfully at my heartstrings and she knew it.

As time wore on, she grew increasingly possessive of me. The time came when she demanded all of my attention. Frankly, sometimes what she wanted to do bored me, but I played along because I loved her. And then I turned ten. We were at a local arcade, celebrating my birthday...or at least that was the idea. In her mind, however, my wishes had become utterly irrelevant. She pronounced my ideas for what to do there "dumb" and we spent the rest of my birthday party doing strictly what she wanted to do. That night, I decided that she was no longer my friend and I steadfastly hated girls until 7th grade.
Looking back, her family life was horrible. She had a highly manipulative mother (from whom she presumably learned her foul tricks) who had the nasty habit of pairing herself off with abusive men, of which at least one molested both :chinami: and :think: . Knowing this, I now pity her, though it's doubtful that we could ever be very good friends again. The last time I met her was approximately 14 years ago and she had already become a cold, stone-faced, bitter teenager. I shudder to imagine what kind of woman she is now.
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Yeah, I have a lot of ex friends. Mostly because I got back-stabbed by them.
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I have an ex - friend. She used to be one of my three best friends. We'd even pass around a notebook and all wrote in it in seperate turns. Then, when we reached fourth class, she got some new friends and suddenly we weren't cool enough anymore. She wrote in our notebook that we "grew apart" and that was it. Earlier, she didn't care about fashion one bit, and suddenly she didn't stop talking about her new clothes anymore. And on top of that, she picked my ex' side when we split up a while after that. And even he finds her annoying now (he told me that). I really want nothing to do with her anymore. How some people can change...
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Wow... some of you have some rather... interesting friends.

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I can't say I ever really had a falling out with a friend, though I did have a falling out with a pretentious cocksucker of an acquaintance, who ended up nearly destroying my circle of friends. I won't get into details, but let's just say I quickly learned why he simply remained an acquaintance.

I did drift apart from a couple of folks, though. Though in one case, one of them drifted away from me when he decided neither I nor our mutual friends were as important as the rest of his new friends. Maybe it's because he stopped being interested in the same things we were, or it might have had something to do with us not kissing as much ass as the rest of his new friends. Oh well. It wouldn't bother me as much, but some of our mutual friends don't seem to be catching on that this "friend" isn't going to break away from his little safe haven of ass-kissers to hang out with the likes of us, even for a moment. I'm not sure what's up; he seems to be the only one out of the ones who have drifted who makes a conscious effort (excuses, inaction, etc) to stay away.

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Indeed. The truth is often stranger than fiction.
Spoiler: Another one from the archives...
I had started to develop some tender feelings toward a certain woman in the ballet company for which I was dancing. She knew this and derived great amusement from making me squirm. I grew completely disillusioned with her when one night she brought her then-boyfriend backstage and pretended to hump him for my viewing displeasure. They were both reasonably clothed, but my respect for her went through the basement nonetheless.
This one may not quite qualify as an "ex-friend"--she and I are now back on friendly terms--but there was a definite break before we bridged the chasm.
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I never fall out with people, just drift apart .__.


Pretty much this. I'm guilty of it being on my end some time, but most of the time, it's them who never get back in touch with me, usually because they can't find the time, then we both forget, then meh.
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Well in my old private school, I had some friends there. But I kinda acted like a douchebag with them so I don't think they remember me very fondly.

Also, in 10th Grade, one of my friends played a prank on me which ended up with me going batshit insane. I think I scared him away and he started ignoring me and everyone else in our circle.
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.:looby:. wrote:
I never fall out with people, just drift apart .__.


Pretty much this. I'm guilty of it being on my end some time, but most of the time, it's them who never get back in touch with me, usually because they can't find the time, then we both forget, then meh.


With me it's always my fault. They all have kids and I just feel like we don't have anything in common so I stop texting, calling and going round..
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For some reason, I thought this topic was going to be closed right away...

I don't really have any stories about ex-friends, aside from just people I didn't got to see anymore because of them being in a different school
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End Quote wrote:
For some reason, I thought this topic was going to be closed right away...


We once had a topic discussing whether or not Pizza Hut's new crust was good or not. Srsly.



I don't really have any ex-friends stories... most of my friends are nice, easygoing people who aren't phony. :)
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Cravat of Doom wrote:
End Quote wrote:
For some reason, I thought this topic was going to be closed right away...


We once had a topic discussing whether or not Pizza Hut's new crust was good or not. Srsly.


Yeah, but... that's an important issue there :gant:
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All of you guys creep me out





So anyways, I have an ex-friend.
I know what you're thinking. "But Justis, you're ever so popular and such a nice guy! Who would ever want to be your ex-friend?"

Now, now, children. Just listen to (well actually read) my story and all will be explained.

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So, it was another not so interesting day in either grade 7 or grade 8. Honestly, I can't remember. My ability to remember stuff is sort of a mixed bag. Anyways, it was probably in grade 8.

There was a new student that had arrived in our class. I didn't pay attention to anything except the clock during grade 8, so I didn't really catch the guy's name, but I realized he looked a lot like some kid that had moved away halfway through grade 2 (yep, somehow I remembered that particular detail. I didn't even like the guy back then, so I was pretty surprised). So at recess (which I miss so much right now. :p) I noticed he wasn't hanging out with anybody, so I went up and talked to him. I confirmed my suspicion that he was the same kid from grade 2, and then I introduced him to the rest of the group. In less than a week he was already accepted by everyone. Heck, near the end of the year he had even become more popular than I was. But it didn't really bother me.

Anyhow, sometime in May or June of Grade 8, my friend started hanging out with this kid that was a really bad influence. He stopped hanging out with his usual group. I had the lurking suspicion that he was getting into trouble, but when I asked him about it, my friend assured me that he wasn't doing anything bad. So I wrote off my skepticism as a result of watching too much crime TV shows and believed him for the time being.

Over the summer, I didn't hear a word from him. I had no idea what he was up to. Still, I held onto the hope that he wasn't getting into any trouble, because he had told me he wasn't.

First week of school I had my worrisome suspicions cofinrmed. It turns out that over the summer the kid had started drinking and smoking. Excusing one instance when I ran into him on a bike ride, I haven't talked to him since. He wasn't the same guy he was when I hung out with him anyways.


So anywho, from what I hear nowadays, he's skipping classes a lot, failing courses, and according to his Facebook page he's now having a boy at the ripe old age of 15.

...Yeah... Can't say I regret ditching him that much.
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Yep. I have my share of old friends. I know what you're thinking. "But you're so young. Probably just fights over lolipops or something" This isn't the case at all. Although I did beat the shit out of a kid and then steal his ice cream, but he was a douche. He deserved it.
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I went to a private school for elementarh school. I was pretty much a nerd then, but I hung out with the Ringleader I guess you could say. But that'll come into play later.

Anyways, I went to kindergarten at this school. I made friends there, but they all moved away. And one gave me lice.

So going into first grade, I was alone. I was picked on by older kids for most of the year. Everyone there knew each other and didn't seem to like people younger than them but I made friends with everyone though. I was best friends with one kid in particular though. His name was Ryan. We did everything together. He didn't understand what went on in school much though, but it had no impact on our friendship.

I then moved on to second grade. My dyslexic(?) friend Jacob who I didn't really do anything with left for some school that helps people with dyslexia. Or something. Anyways, we lost one person. I was friends with Ryan still, but this year I became better friends with everyone else. I became friends with:
Garett, son of a teacher I never had, Brigitte, a girl from Russia who is still, eight years later, in love with said Ringmaster,
Monica, a Mexican girl that everyone thought I loved (though I didn't),
Simona, sheltered girl who's parents are still my dentists,
Peirce, a reletively mysterious kid who is pursuing his dream of becoming a musician and was up-to-date on everything in existance,
and the Ringmaster, Tyler, a kid who ran everything that happened on the playground, gym, anywhere, starting from when he was in kindergarten.
So it was another school year, full of the same drama that you can have with this class in second grade. Except Tyler must have seen potential or something in me, because he started to try to distance me and Ryan. He started to talk to me more and more.

In third grade, no one left. Tyler butted in more and more, until I could only hang out with Ryan when Tyler wasn't in school. (Lol short paragraph)

In fourth grade, we lost Simona and Pierce. I was forced into a world of Tyler. He would invite me to his house all the time. And you cant say no to the coolest kid in school. So I was always in the shadow of charismatic Tyler. He would charm girls into getting his way.

In fifth grade Garett and Ryan tried to damage Tyler's reputation by ignoring him and denying him stuff. They actually managed to pull me out of Tyler's control. We had fun, and we managed to tarnish his reputation more by freeing a few more people from his grip. Halfway through the year, Ryan stopped showing up to school. Kids fell back to Tyler and me and Garett were picked on constantly. Ryan showed up again later, but nothing changed.

Eventually the end of the year came, and since then I've seen Ryan once at Walmart, am Facebook friends with Pierce, and have talked with Garett and that's it. I don't see anyone anymore though. Except for Tyler.

We made up in sixth grade, but he had already changed from the charismatic friend I once knew into a manipulative douche. We had classes with each other, and he even tried to control me then. I made new friends, but he tried to turn me against them. Tom, Jake, Billy, Cody, and Ashlyn stuck out most though. I made it to seventh grade unmanipulated

I'll post the rest later.

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Ow, my head. You know, that would've been a lot easier to read if you had used paragraphs. Just a suggestion. Walls of text without spacing often lead to "tl;dr" scenarios, which nobody likes.

Anyways,I think what we're all wondering is when you stole somebody's ice cream. Why would you do that!? That's like reaching into somebody's soul and stealing their pride. Having your ice cream stolen can really mess a guy up. Shame on you!
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justis76 wrote:
Ow, my head. You know, that would've been a lot easier to read if you had used paragraphs. Just a suggestion. Walls of text without spacing often lead to "tl;dr" scenarios, which nobody likes.

Anyways,I think what we're all wondering is when you stole somebody's ice cream. Why would you do that!? That's like reaching into somebody's soul and stealing their pride. Having your ice cream stolen can really mess a guy up. Shame on you!

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All of you guys creep me out
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So, it was another not so interesting day in either grade 7 or grade 8. Honestly, I can't remember. My ability to remember stuff is sort of a mixed bag. Anyways, it was probably in grade 8.

There was a new student that had arrived in our class. I didn't pay attention to anything except the clock during grade 8, so I didn't really catch the guy's name, but I realized he looked a lot like some kid that had moved away halfway through grade 2 (yep, somehow I remembered that particular detail. I didn't even like the guy back then, so I was pretty surprised). So at recess (which I miss so much right now. :p) I noticed he wasn't hanging out with anybody, so I went up and talked to him. I confirmed my suspicion that he was the same kid from grade 2, and then I introduced him to the rest of the group. In less than a week he was already accepted by everyone. Heck, near the end of the year he had even become more popular than I was. But it didn't really bother me.

Anyhow, sometime in May or June of Grade 8, my friend started hanging out with this kid that was a really bad influence. He stopped hanging out with his usual group. I had the lurking suspicion that he was getting into trouble, but when I asked him about it, my friend assured me that he wasn't doing anything bad. So I wrote off my skepticism as a result of watching too much crime TV shows and believed him for the time being.

Over the summer, I didn't hear a word from him. I had no idea what he was up to. Still, I held onto the hope that he wasn't getting into any trouble, because he had told me he wasn't.

First week of school I had my worrisome suspicions cofinrmed. It turns out that over the summer the kid had started drinking and smoking. Excusing one instance when I ran into him on a bike ride, I haven't talked to him since. He wasn't the same guy he was when I hung out with him anyways.


So anywho, from what I hear nowadays, he's skipping classes a lot, failing courses, and according to his Facebook page he's now having a boy at the ripe old age of 15.

...Yeah... Can't say I regret ditching him that much.
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justis76 wrote:
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:adrian: What ever do you mean?

And we don't have horror stories of young kids here. Someone would say Finns are too smart to have kids before they get a job and turn 30.
But we start smoking and drinking earlier than any other nation in Europe! *waits for applause in vain*
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I drift apart from people time to time but I make efforts to speak to them time to time.

It's fake friends I have problems with, backstabbers are not friends so I don't use ex-friends.
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Chloe wrote:
It's fake friends I have problems with, backstabbers are not friends so I don't use ex-friends.


Oh jeez, time for another story.

Spoiler: Not as much rambling, but just in case.
Okay, I was in elementary school at the time. I had a lot of trouble making friends, and at one point, I just stopped caring. So I mostly spent Recess walking around and stuff. Didn't really care. So imagine how happy I was when a kid walked up to me and asked if I wanted to play.

We played and stuff, ran around, how little kids usually play. It was pretty fun, actually. Anyway, the recess bell rings. Now, before I go on, you should know something. Around Elementary School, I developed a hatred for the sound of finger snapping. The sound was like nails on a chalkboard X2 for me. Yeeeah, I bet you can see were this going.

I turn around to say bye to the kid, and he snaps his fingers right in my ear and runs away laughing. ...OW. I then started to cry ignored it and walked away like a man.

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When I was in primary school, (I'm British, so the American equivalent is junior school? Maybe..?) I had a solid group of 4 best friends - as well as several other friends. When we moved up to high school, we promised to stay together. Now, 2 years later, I'm only best friends with 1 of them now. Another, I speak to occasionally. The other two? One of them blanks me - we haven't spoken at all since we started high school - and the other forgot about me.
Another of my best friends I made during my first year of high school told me she hated me for no reason, but as we had mutual best friends we have had to stick together, much to my chagrin. I'd love to break free from her, but that would mean losing all my other friends, so I have to stick with her..
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Old friends to me are either people who moved and I never saw again, or people who moved and never took the time to talk to me again.

Here is one such friend.

Spoiler: Long rant is long.
There was this girl named Jessica, who I became friends with in 3rd grade. She wasn't that bad, just about as average as I was. (Ha ha, average.) About in 4th grade, I started getting a little ticked off by some of the things she did (getting juice or milk cartons out of the same box as me at lunch, things like that) and it kinda got worse when she was wanting me to play with her, even when I was with my best friend, who didn't really like her. (Me, back then, kept thinking, "I can play with both of them and be happy!" Stupid little peacekeeper, I was.)
Close to the end of 4th grade, I got into a fight with Jessica, involving the earlier "getting things out of the same box or holder as me" peeve. The funny thing is, I think the rest of my classmates were happy that I fought with her. I didn't see her over the summer that year, but at 5th grade, guess what? We apparently forgot that the fight happen, and were still friends. (Damn heat waves!!)

Throughout Jr. High, the only problem I had with her was that she kept hanging around a girl that had a reputation for crying and tattling on others to get what she wanted when the others would tease her, and I was scared that she'd end up the same way. Sure enough, Jessica ended up being nearly exactly like the other girl, only this time I couldn't really do anything to help her, since she kinda brought it upon herself. Around this time, she got into more fights with my best friend, and I started to think the group known as the "Host Club" I had formed in 6th or 7th grade was falling apart.

We got into High School our 9th grade year, and that was the last year I would end up seeing her. I was still semi-friends with her, but I was trying to be close with my best friend since high school had a rep for breaking ties with friends. Into the 2nd semester (or first), Jessica told me that she would have to move because her dad got a job in Louisiana, her home state. She would be back down for prom that year since she was asked to be someone's date. After one going-away party and one visit before prom, I haven't heard from her since then, especially since she isn't allowed on her Gaia account or on her Myspace.

The funny thing about this? She has a Facebook she's allowed on, and she might actually be talking to my brother on his Facebook. This seems strange, as her parents were rather strict on her time on the Internet. I've also tried to call her for her most recent birthday, but she didn't answer, even when I called 5 times.


Whether or not she's choosing to not talk about me is beyond my grasp, but I'd rather not do anything about it until I get a sharp stab of worry going in my mind.
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Subaru Ryusei wrote:
Old friends to me are either people who moved and I never saw again, or people who moved and never took the time to talk to me again.

Here is one such friend.

Spoiler: Long rant is long.
There was this girl named Jessica, who I became friends with in 3rd grade. She wasn't that bad, just about as average as I was. (Ha ha, average.) About in 4th grade, I started getting a little ticked off by some of the things she did (getting juice or milk cartons out of the same box as me at lunch, things like that) and it kinda got worse when she was wanting me to play with her, even when I was with my best friend, who didn't really like her. (Me, back then, kept thinking, "I can play with both of them and be happy!" Stupid little peacekeeper, I was.)
Close to the end of 4th grade, I got into a fight with Jessica, involving the earlier "getting things out of the same box or holder as me" peeve. The funny thing is, I think the rest of my classmates were happy that I fought with her. I didn't see her over the summer that year, but at 5th grade, guess what? We apparently forgot that the fight happen, and were still friends. (Damn heat waves!!)

Throughout Jr. High, the only problem I had with her was that she kept hanging around a girl that had a reputation for crying and tattling on others to get what she wanted when the others would tease her, and I was scared that she'd end up the same way. Sure enough, Jessica ended up being nearly exactly like the other girl, only this time I couldn't really do anything to help her, since she kinda brought it upon herself. Around this time, she got into more fights with my best friend, and I started to think the group known as the "Host Club" I had formed in 6th or 7th grade was falling apart.

We got into High School our 9th grade year, and that was the last year I would end up seeing her. I was still semi-friends with her, but I was trying to be close with my best friend since high school had a rep for breaking ties with friends. Into the 2nd semester (or first), Jessica told me that she would have to move because her dad got a job in Louisiana, her home state. She would be back down for prom that year since she was asked to be someone's date. After one going-away party and one visit before prom, I haven't heard from her since then, especially since she isn't allowed on her Gaia account or on her Myspace.

The funny thing about this? She has a Facebook she's allowed on, and she might actually be talking to my brother on his Facebook. This seems strange, as her parents were rather strict on her time on the Internet. I've also tried to call her for her most recent birthday, but she didn't answer, even when I called 5 times.


Whether or not she's choosing to not talk about me is beyond my grasp, but I'd rather not do anything about it until I get a sharp stab of worry going in my mind.

What a diabolical problem involving friends!
Since I left my primary school in Grade 5 to go to a different school, I haven't stayed in touch with most of my friends. I did stay in touch with one good friend, though. :godot:
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Okay, here's one of them...(I've never been verry good at making friends...)

Spoiler: Ranting on.....
So, my first year junior high: start of the year: I have three friends, let's call them S, A and K. S is in my class so I get really close to her. S doesn't care what people think about her, hates girlie stuff and always wears hicking boots to school. Somewhere around easter, S and K start getting annoyed with about everything A does. I don't think this is fair so I stand up for A.(I remember how it is to be all alone) Suddenly S and K start whisperring. K seems to be telling S all kinds of things she doesn't want to tell us. At the end of the day I confront S and ask her what's going on:
S: "K has a problem and she can only tell me because I'm her best friend."
Me: "But wasn't L (an other kid I don't know) your best friend?"
S: "You don't understand: I'm K's best friend, but K isn't my best friend."
Me: *raises eyebrow* But she can trust us, she's our friend too...
S: ignores me for the rest of the day.
Okay, so that evening I send emails, desperate to get an answer.
The only result I got was hatemail, written in high school slang.(things like: everyone thinks I'm a lot cooler now I don't talk to you anymore, you're a stupid and irritating nerd, leave me alone...etc)
My friend A get's even more hatemail and we decided to go to the principle. Even though they told her to make up, she never did. S now wears shoes that look like ballet shoes, pink pullovers and has two ponytails in her hair...(yeah, go figure)
You're now wondering if I'm not done yet: just one more thing:
next week school starts again, and guess who sends an email to "make up" and tell us the "truth", S... What a hypocrit.
I bet she has a split personality (the way she changed over night, is just too creepy)

A and I are now verry good friends.


I'm sure I left some stuff out, but that's about the jist of it... Sorry for ranting like that...
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Yay everybody can read my rant now.

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So me and my 2 bros always go out around where we live, playing footy and other stuff like that.

So one of my bros goes up to secondary school, and makes a friend.

Me and my brothers start to go out and play with him a lot and he becomes our bud.

He then tells us that he has a brother, my age. So we start hanging around with him a lot. We hung out for about 6 months and he became my best friend.

So it's time to go to secondary school for me, and he ends up in my form. He meets all of my friends, and he befriends them. But he didn't seem the same. He was acting as if he were "hard" as we say. He had turned into a douche. But he was a douche on the outside, on the inside he was a tit. An absolute tit.

For some reason, he thought that me and my brother were bullying him, and started to tell people at school that we were. At this point me and my brothers hate him and his brother (he had brainwashed his brother into hating us)

From this point on, I hated everything he done. Every little thing that he done got me angry.

But at one point we were in science classes together, and there was a trip. I wasn't going, but him and a few others were. So they all ask to go, and Mr Teacher asks if they have a note each from the teacher organizing the trip. Everyone except him has one, and the teacher doesn't let him go. So he starts to cry. Call me evil, but at this point I was having trouble not laughing.

And we haven't talked in about 4 years. And I'm glad, because he still isn't the same person.

Oh yeah, and at some point in this story, he wiped dog shit on my cousin. Yes. He had stepped in dog shit while we were out playing, and thought, "Why don't i just step in it a bit more then wipe it on him." This was also one of the reasons why I hate him.


And I'm done.
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Little Magician wrote:
Subaru Ryusei wrote:
Old friends to me are either people who moved and I never saw again, or people who moved and never took the time to talk to me again.

Here is one such friend.

Spoiler: Long rant is long.
There was this girl named Jessica, who I became friends with in 3rd grade. She wasn't that bad, just about as average as I was. (Ha ha, average.) About in 4th grade, I started getting a little ticked off by some of the things she did (getting juice or milk cartons out of the same box as me at lunch, things like that) and it kinda got worse when she was wanting me to play with her, even when I was with my best friend, who didn't really like her. (Me, back then, kept thinking, "I can play with both of them and be happy!" Stupid little peacekeeper, I was.)
Close to the end of 4th grade, I got into a fight with Jessica, involving the earlier "getting things out of the same box or holder as me" peeve. The funny thing is, I think the rest of my classmates were happy that I fought with her. I didn't see her over the summer that year, but at 5th grade, guess what? We apparently forgot that the fight happen, and were still friends. (Damn heat waves!!)

Throughout Jr. High, the only problem I had with her was that she kept hanging around a girl that had a reputation for crying and tattling on others to get what she wanted when the others would tease her, and I was scared that she'd end up the same way. Sure enough, Jessica ended up being nearly exactly like the other girl, only this time I couldn't really do anything to help her, since she kinda brought it upon herself. Around this time, she got into more fights with my best friend, and I started to think the group known as the "Host Club" I had formed in 6th or 7th grade was falling apart.

We got into High School our 9th grade year, and that was the last year I would end up seeing her. I was still semi-friends with her, but I was trying to be close with my best friend since high school had a rep for breaking ties with friends. Into the 2nd semester (or first), Jessica told me that she would have to move because her dad got a job in Louisiana, her home state. She would be back down for prom that year since she was asked to be someone's date. After one going-away party and one visit before prom, I haven't heard from her since then, especially since she isn't allowed on her Gaia account or on her Myspace.

The funny thing about this? She has a Facebook she's allowed on, and she might actually be talking to my brother on his Facebook. This seems strange, as her parents were rather strict on her time on the Internet. I've also tried to call her for her most recent birthday, but she didn't answer, even when I called 5 times.


Whether or not she's choosing to not talk about me is beyond my grasp, but I'd rather not do anything about it until I get a sharp stab of worry going in my mind.

What a diabolical problem involving friends!
Since I left my primary school in Grade 5 to go to a different school, I haven't stayed in touch with most of my friends. I did stay in touch with one good friend, though. :godot:

I keep thinking she's online-dating my brother. Is that a bad thing?
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For some reason, I thought this topic was going to be closed right away...


We once had a topic discussing whether or not Pizza Hut's new crust was good or not. Srsly.


Yeah, but... that's an important issue there :gant:


Yup. Quite. By the way, I think it's epic.
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I have had many friends but I wouldn't consider them exes. Most of them have moved on due to factors beyond their control or just a general disinterest in me. That's cool with me. I'd rather see them be happy around people whose company they enjoy, although I sometimes wish that my interests were similar to theirs so that we could form stronger social bonds. I see it has having less to do with them than it does me.

Currently, I rarely see or hang out with my friends these days, but I know that they're still cool with me 'cause I'm so likable despite the occasional period of crabbiness for which I'm often apologetic. I don't have a huge circle but I love being around my friends, when we're together and laughing it up and having a good time and bonding through our common interests.

My only wish is that they would get Facebook pages so we could chat and keep in touch when we're not physically in each other's presence, but they lean more towards the "anti-mass culture conformist" trend that a lot of young people follow for no explicable reason. :grey:
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I have ex-friends, quite a few. but most of them were because we drifted apart. There is one that was over a lot of arguments. He still thinks we're BFFs.

Spoiler: Very long rant, if you get through it, there will be cookies.
I've been friends with this guy, we'll call him L, for about six years. We met in primary school, we weren't really close, but we were still friends. In our first year in high school, we were pretty much inseperable. Our realtionship just went completly downhill in Second Year. He started insulting everything I liked. At first, I thought he was just playing around, but he kept doing it, so I asked him to stop. He just got worse and worse, then he finally insulted my role model, so I snapped, stomped on his foot and ran off crying.

Later on that year, my sister opened a forum, and in the roleplaying section, L opened a topic for an RP he'd thought of a few years back. Even though I was still angry at him for insulting my role model, I decided to help out, and made three characters for it. After I posted their profiles, L pretty much wet himself laughing and refered to them as the Mary-Sue trio. I will admit, they were quite Sue-ish, but his was a blatant self insert. I asked him how they were Sue-ish, he replied "They just are!" and never answered my questions.

After a few months, we somehow made up. I can't remember how it happened, but we were as close as we were the year before. That was until I met my role model one day, I got it autograph. I pretty much told everyone about this, and I was just really happy. Then, he dragged my mood down completly. He said he was self-harming.
My sister was pouring her heart out to him and I was giving him a lecture. He stopped talking for a while and me and my sister started arguing. Then he started laughing and said "You actually thought I was self-harming?!"
I got REALLY angry and slapped him. And he wondered why I got really angry and left.

We didn't talk for a while after that, but after a while, we started talking again. We weren't as close, but we still spoke. After we got into Third Year, we never saw each other, because I moved schools. I was talking to him on MSN, and he asked me why I wasn't going to school, I told him it was because I moved. After that, he was worse than ever. He started to insult my friends. I've actually never been more annoyed at him when he did that. I can't stand people I love being insulted like that. . After two months, he stopped insulting them, then moved onto insulting me. One day, when we were talking on MSN, he wouldn't stop insulting me, so I asked him why he was doing this to me, and the conversation went like this
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L: And once again it seems you've nothing better to do than quiz me
Me: And you have nothing better to do than berate me..that's a surprise
L: If you don't enjoy it, which I doubt you do, don't give me a desire to do so.
Me: You shouldn't be doing it anyway,
L: I'm aware.
Me: Then why do it? If you know I don't like it, then why?
L: Because it's the internet.
Me: That's not an excuse!
L: I come online to enjoy myself, not to waste time and energy engaging in pointless and tedious arguments with you over the slightest thing I say that displeases you.
Me: Then why do it?
L: Why? You think I enjoy this stupidity I find myself embroilled in almost every time I go online?
Me: If you did not do it then I'd have no reason to believe it
L: are you going to keep this going?
Me: Are you?
L: Is it not obvious?
Me: You're acting as if you won't stop...
L: You think I won't stop?
Me: Yes
L: I don't even want to start
Me: Then why cause it to start?
L: It's not intentional.
Me: How not? You should know by now what angers me
L: I say nothing with the intent of getting a reaction out of you.
Me: Oh? Then why do it?
L: If you nothing positive to say to me, I'll be off now. I've got things to get back to.
Me: I want answers!
L: You'll need to wait untill I want to give you them.
Good night, Miss Detective.



PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 4:47 pm
I've been friends with this guy, we'll call him L, for about six years. We met in primary school, we weren't really close, but we were still friends. In our first year in high school, we were pretty much inseperable. Our realtionship just went completly downhill in Second Year. He started insulting everything I liked. At first, I thought he was just playing around, but he kept doing it, so I asked him to stop. He just got worse and worse, then he finally insulted my role model, so I snapped, stomped on his foot and ran off crying.

Later on that year, my sister opened a forum, and in the roleplaying section, L opened a topic for an RP he'd thought of a few years back. Even though I was still angry at him for insulting my role model, I decided to help out, and made three characters for it. After I posted their profiles, L pretty much wet himself laughing and refered to them as the Mary-Sue trio. I will admit, they were quite Sue-ish, but his was a blatant self insert. I asked him how they were Sue-ish, he replied "They just are!" and never answered my questions.

After a few months, we somehow made up. I can't remember how it happened, but we were as close as we were the year before. That was until I met my role model one day, I got it autograph. I pretty much told everyone about this, and I was just really happy. Then, he dragged my mood down completly. He said he was self-harming.
My sister was pouring her heart out to him and I was giving him a lecture. He stopped talking for a while and me and my sister started arguing. Then he started laughing and said "You actually thought I was self-harming?!"
I got REALLY angry and slapped him. And he wondered why I got really angry and left.

We didn't talk for a while after that, but after a while, we started talking again. We weren't as close, but we still spoke. After we got into Third Year, we never saw each other, because I moved schools. I was talking to him on MSN, and he asked me why I wasn't going to school, I told him it was because I moved. After that, he was worse than ever. He started to insult my friends. I've actually never been more annoyed at him when he did that. I can't stand people I love being insulted like that. . After two months, he stopped insulting them, then moved onto insulting me. One day, when we were talking on MSN, he wouldn't stop insulting me, so I asked him why he was doing this to me, and the conversation went like this:
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L: And once again it seems you've nothing better to do than quiz me
Me: And you have nothing better to do than berate me..that's a surprise
L: If you don't enjoy it, which I doubt you do, don't give me a desire to do so.
Me: You shouldn't be doing it anyway,
L: I'm aware.
Me: Then why do it? If you know I don't like it, then why?
L: Because it's the internet.
Me: That's not an excuse!
L: I come online to enjoy myself, not to waste time and energy engaging in pointless and tedious arguments with you over the slightest thing I say that displeases you.
Me: Then why do it?
L: Why? You think I enjoy this stupidity I find myself embroilled in almost every time I go online?
Me: If you did not do it then I'd have no reason to believe it
L: are you going to keep this going?
Me: Are you?
L: Is it not obvious?
Me: You're acting as if you won't stop...
L: You think I won't stop?
Me: Yes
L: I don't even want to start
Me: Then why cause it to start?
L: It's not intentional.
Me: How not? You should know by now what angers me
L: I say nothing with the intent of getting a reaction out of you.
Me: Oh? Then why do it?
L: If you nothing positive to say to me, I'll be off now. I've got things to get back to.
Me: I want answers!
L: You'll need to wait untill I want to give you them.
Good night, Miss Detective.

After this conversation, I had adopted the nickname "Miss Detective."
I will admit, I wasn't exactly being polite, but he was acting as if he didn't know what made me get this angry and upset, but he keeps going on about how well he knows me.

About two weeks ago, he was looking for ideas for his RP, I was giving him some, but he wasn't responding to them. I asked him "Are you even listening to me?", he replied "To be honest, no. I never listen to you." I flipped out at him then logged off.

A few days later, after I had calmed down slightly, I asked him if we could finsh one of the roleplays we had because it ended suddenly. He said "When I get to that part in the game" (he's making a game for it on a RPG maker.) I told him this could take over a year because it happens near the end of the story, and I wouldn't be avaliable because I'd be going to college. He said "Are you serious? You're even younger than me!" I had to remind him that he was three DAYS younger than me and not three years. He asked me why I need to go to college next year, I told him I couldn't get all the qualifications I needed at the school I was at. He pretty much demanded that I went back to the school I was at, I told him that the reason why I left in the first place was because I hated the place. I hated the majority of the teachers because most of them hated me because I had my hair dyed bright red, I hated the majority of the students because they couldn't accept me because I was different from them. I hated the building, it was far too big, and the idiots of the school blocked the hallways, and made it almost impossible to get to class on time. Most of the teachers would shout at me for being late and refused to listen to me. They would just go "Walk faster" or "Push past them". I'm a 4ft 5 female who is built like a twig. I can't push past them, and I can't walk quicker because the other students are blocking the hallways. After I reminded L about this he just said "I don't care, just do it. It's better for everyone and you're too young to go to college."

One day im again face-to-face, and we talked about the RP, and he said "I have a plan for DGL (the name of the RP), but I want to keep it a secret". I asked him "Can you tell me? I'm actually quite interested." He replied "No! It's a secret, I won't tell you!". I said "If you weren't going to tell me then, why the hell did you bring it up?!" He didn't reply, and he tried to convince me to not kill one of my characters. His reason was "You spent so much time working on her, it would be a waste to get rid of her" OK, it sounds reasonable, but he hated her when I first posted her profile, her new one hasn't changed much, or at least it hasn't changed enough to change one's opinons on her. His reason for suddenly deciding he likes her is when he found out she was blonde. He has a very frightining fetish for blondes. He keeps hiding secrets from me, so I quit all the RPs he made for a number of reasons. I made a journal about it.

So,, he opened the RP again, and the reason why he opened it was the procastination issue. But his opening line was quite rude..."Alright, after much procrastinating and a certain someone who shall not be named at this point leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Honestly L, is it really hard to type: "Alright, after much procrastinating and The Eleventh Doctor (my username on that site) leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Seriously, mate, it makes you seem less rude, but I am one of the very few people who stands up to his crap. One of my other friends can't stand him either, and she stands up to him, and he bitched about her for about an hour claiming "Her only good quality is her looks!". I found that really offensive, M is a lovely girl who's personality matches her looks, she's beautiful, and I don't usually say that about girls. Ok, I rambled a bit there.....anyway, back to the topic at hand... I spoke to him on MSN after a long break, this is what happened to begin with:
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Me: Y'know the problems in DGL weren't so bad they needed a new topic.
L: Meh. I just felt like starting over again. I know it's such a cop out and all, but... I just think that I should start over,
I'm just dissatisfied with it again.
Me: It was fine, a few adjustments would've sorted it.
L: But I'm coming up with new templates.
Me: Yet again, the last ones were fine.
There was no need to change them.


Anyhoo, we started talking about pointless crap, even though I was rather relucant.
To kill time, I went offline for a while to watch Glee on CHannel 4. I missed almost all of it, so I had to watch it again on C4 +1. When I came back online, an hour and a half later, I asked him if he had finsihed the templates yet, he said no, and pretty much said he was procastinating. I told him not to procastinate. This is what happened:
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OK, I haven't blocked him, but I haven't been talking to him at all, in hope that he'd realize what

he has done. About two weeks ago, I actually met him again face-to-face, and we talked about the RP, and he said "I have a plan for DGL (the name of the RP), but I want to keep it a secret". I asked him "Can you tell me? I'm actually quite interested." He replied "No! It's a secret, I won't tell you!". I said "If you weren't going to tell me then, why the hell did you bring it up?!" He didn't reply, and he tried to convince me to not kill one of my characters. His reason was "You spent so much time working on her, it would be a waste to get rid of her" OK, it sounds reasonable, but he hated her when I first posted her profile, her new one hasn't changed much, or at least it hasn't changed enough to change one's opinons on her. His reason for suddenly deciding he likes her is when he found out she was blonde. He has a very frightining fetish for blondes. He keeps hiding secrets from me, so I quit all the RPs he made for a number of reasons. I made a journal about it.
Here be the journal.


So, last week, he opened the RP again, and the reason why he opened it was the procastination issue. But his opening line was quite rude..."Alright, after much procrastinating and a certain someone who shall not be named at this point leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Honestly L, is it really hard to type: "Alright, after much procrastinating and The Eleventh Doctor (my username on that site) leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Seriously, mate, it makes you seem less rude, but I am one of the very few people who stands up to his crap. One of my other friends can't stand him either, and she stands up to him, and he bitched about her for about an hour claiming "Her only good quality is her looks!". I found that really offensive, M is a lovely girl who's personality matches her looks, she's beautiful, and I don't usually say that about girls. Ok, I rambled a bit there.....anyway, back to the topic at hand... I spoke to him on MSN after a long break, this is what happened to begin with:
Spoiler: hide
Me: Y'know the problems in DGL weren't so bad they needed a new topic.
L: Meh. I just felt like starting over again. I know it's such a cop out and all, but... I just think that I should start over,
I'm just dissatisfied with it again.
Me: It was fine, a few adjustments would've sorted it.
L: But I'm coming up with new templates.
Me: Yet again, the last ones were fine.
There was no need to change them.


Anyhoo, we started talking about pointless crap, even though I was rather relucant.
To kill time, I went offline for a while to watch Glee on CHannel 4. I missed almost all of it, so I had to watch it again on C4 +1. When I came back online, an hour and a half later, I asked him if he had finsihed the templates yet, he said no, and pretty much said he was procastinating. I told him not to procastinate. This is what happened:
Spoiler: hide
L:What does it matter to you anyhow? You did quit after all
M:Did you even read my journal on DA?
L: Yes
Me: You seem to be trying to fix one of the problems, you didn't give a damn before
People are indecisive.
What do you hope to accomplish by saying this anyway?
M: ONe question, did Sheena talk to you about this procastination issue?
L: No.
She didn't care.
M: Well, judging from past experiences, she did mention it, and you fixed it to please her.
L: When did she mention it?
When? I certainly don't remember.
If you think that's why I'm doing this, you're sorely mistaken
M: I just have a very strong feeling about it.
SHe does go your house far more than I do, that gives her a time span to do so.
L: But she doesn't
Unlike you, she's pretty lax about the whole thing
M: She does go to your house far more than me, I can't remember the last time I was at your house.
It was definitely at least a year ago.
L: That's true.
If you came down, I have no doubt that all you'd do is chastise me for procrastinating.
M: I'm angry at you for a completely different reason.
L: You're never anything but angry at me
M: You're acting as if I'm angry at you for procastinating, I will admit I'm annoyed at you for that, but I'm not angry as such.
L: Well, what is that different reason?
And don't waste my time.
I could be using this time to finish up the claims topic.
So this better be worth my time.
M: Well, everytime you ever do anything that makes me angry, upset ect...you never apologize. The worst one was after I met John Barrowman....when you lied about self-harming. But of course that isn't worth you time. Obviously my apparent friendship to you isn't important, otherwise you would've apologized by now.
L: You get angry far too easily.
M: What?! You're saying that I'm too easiler angered, after you lied about a very serious problem after one of the best days of my life?
L: Yes. I am.
M: How would you feel if SHeena did something like that to you?
L: That would mildly upset me.
But nothing that would make me angyr
M: It's not what you did that's the biggest problem, it's the fact that you haven't apologized to me in 6 bloody years.
L: It wasn't 6 years ago.
It was 2 years ago
M: We met 6 years ago, and I met John last year
L: *sigh* You just can't let anything go, can you?
M: So you have no intention of ever apologizing to me?
L: I'd thought there'd be no need and that you'd be smart enough not to bear grudges.
M: There you go, insulting my intelligence again.
L: You should be able to let bygons be bygons.
M: I usually do if the person apologizes to me, tries to refrain from hurting me again, and doesn't insult my intelligence.
L: That's a shame.
I don't have anything more to say to you today.


And then he logged off...he didn't even seem remotley sorry at all...there was just some small part of me that hoped that he had changed back to same kid I knew when I was 12...but I was mistaken..I felt like a foolishly foolish fool....
Also, when we were talking about useless crap, he asked if I'd seen LittleKuriboh's video "LEather Pants". I said yes. He said that us two should do that to my sister. I was against the idea, as a whole, but then he came with this gem "And Sheena will be in her underpants in the middle of the street!"

This is what happened when I asked for my apology again
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Yatagarasu: Oh yes, I almost forgot.
2 Jun 10, 20:10
Yatagarasu: My apology for your behaviour, I expect you to give me it. Via MSN or PM.
Silver: Don't expect it any time soon.
Silver: Consider yourself lucky if I even humour you and write such a thing.
Silver: Honestly, the very idea is absurd.
Silver: Honestly, what makes you believe I'll comply with your demands?
Silver: How is it going to benefit me in the long run?
Yatagarasu: Why is it so hard for you to apologize?!
Yatagarasu: Am I really that worthless to you?
Silver: Why would you think you are worthless to me?
Silver: I never said anything about worth.
Silver: Almost every time we talk on MSN, I seem to say something that you take offense to.
<insert Sister trying to hide our arguing because it makes our 3 active member forum bad>
Yatagarasu: SHeena, making the converstation between me and Silver will not solve the problem, it's ceasefire
Yatagarasu: And I think that I'm worthless to you because you refuse to apologize to me! I don't care if you think it's trivial! If you've hurt someone, whether you think it's a big problem or not, you apologize.
Yatagarasu: It's common courtesy.
Silver: Oh come off it! You let nothing go, you've done plenty to hurt me but I don't hound you for an apology. I don't bear grudges. No good comes from them.
Silver: Just let the damn thing go. Both of us are far too stubborn to reach an agreement.
Silver: It's going to keep on going because neither side will give in.
Silver: No matter what I say though, you'll continue to hound me.


After my sister spoke to him about his attitude, he sent a fake apology e-mail.
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Look, whatever it is that's got you so pissed, I apologize profusely.... I really do not know why I've changed into such an akward person. I do value your friendship, but I'm no good with expressing at. It's not something I do intentionally. I honestly can't describe in words how I feel right now. I've just been so stressed lately.... You haven't done much, the only thing that hurt was that you'd keep on going after me and the arguing... it's too much for me. I just can't cope with that sort of thing for great deals of time. That's probably why I kept disappearing, waiting untill I thought you'd calmed down and came back trying to start small talk. There is no excuse for my rudeness towards you, thus I have nothing to say in my own defense.

I know that I don't deserve your respect, your forgiveness or even your friendship, but I hope that I can at least make this moment of extreme foolishness and downright assholery on my part disappear. I would like nothing more than for us to return to being the friends we once were. I know this won't make what I've said in the past that's hurt you so deeply disappear; but hey, Actions speak louder than words, right?

Anyways, I digress. Can you forgive me? If I say anything that bothers you, tell me immediately and I'll do whatever I can to change it.

Sincerely,
L

It seemed genuine, but I knew there was something off about it. For me, it was too perfect.
I replied to it
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Not meaning to sound weird, but you've used those reasons a lot, especially the one about being stressed. I can see how you find it hard to express friendship, but the things you've done makes me think the last thing we are are friends. I only kept going on at you because you DIDN'T apologize, you said it was a trivial matter. So to be brutally honest, you brought the stress from that on yourself. I'm a bit suspicious about when you changed your mind...it was after Sheena spoke to you about it. And you said that I've done plenty to hurt you. You were acting as if it was on the same levels, or that they were worse, as the things you've done to me.

I really don't think things to back to what they were, trust is one of the hardest things in the world to fix.

Also, not to sound picky, but I did ask you to apologize in person. It's a lot easier to say sorry over the internet, and it's hard to tell if you actually mean it, in person, it's easier to tell by tone of voice, body language, etc...

This apology seems far too perfect to me, might just be my imagination, but it seems too perfect. It seems like you've said everything that I want to hear..but yet again, it might be my imagination.


After this, he was being far too nice, almost like he was trying far too hard to get on my good side, and about a month later, he went straight back to berating me, and aftewards, tried to act like nothing had happened.

I'm giving him one more chance, and if he messes up again, he can bugger the hell off.

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I have ex-friends, quite a few. but most of them were because we drifted apart. There is one that was over a lot of arguments. He still thinks we're BFFs.

Spoiler: Very long rant, if you get through it, there will be cookies.
I've been friends with this guy, we'll call him L, for about six years. We met in primary school, we weren't really close, but we were still friends. In our first year in high school, we were pretty much inseperable. Our realtionship just went completly downhill in Second Year. He started insulting everything I liked. At first, I thought he was just playing around, but he kept doing it, so I asked him to stop. He just got worse and worse, then he finally insulted my role model, so I snapped, stomped on his foot and ran off crying.

Later on that year, my sister opened a forum, and in the roleplaying section, L opened a topic for an RP he'd thought of a few years back. Even though I was still angry at him for insulting my role model, I decided to help out, and made three characters for it. After I posted their profiles, L pretty much wet himself laughing and refered to them as the Mary-Sue trio. I will admit, they were quite Sue-ish, but his was a blatant self insert. I asked him how they were Sue-ish, he replied "They just are!" and never answered my questions.

After a few months, we somehow made up. I can't remember how it happened, but we were as close as we were the year before. That was until I met my role model one day, I got it autograph. I pretty much told everyone about this, and I was just really happy. Then, he dragged my mood down completly. He said he was self-harming.
My sister was pouring her heart out to him and I was giving him a lecture. He stopped talking for a while and me and my sister started arguing. Then he started laughing and said "You actually thought I was self-harming?!"
I got REALLY angry and slapped him. And he wondered why I got really angry and left.

We didn't talk for a while after that, but after a while, we started talking again. We weren't as close, but we still spoke. After we got into Third Year, we never saw each other, because I moved schools. I was talking to him on MSN, and he asked me why I wasn't going to school, I told him it was because I moved. After that, he was worse than ever. He started to insult my friends. I've actually never been more annoyed at him when he did that. I can't stand people I love being insulted like that. . After two months, he stopped insulting them, then moved onto insulting me. One day, when we were talking on MSN, he wouldn't stop insulting me, so I asked him why he was doing this to me, and the conversation went like this
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L: And once again it seems you've nothing better to do than quiz me
Me: And you have nothing better to do than berate me..that's a surprise
L: If you don't enjoy it, which I doubt you do, don't give me a desire to do so.
Me: You shouldn't be doing it anyway,
L: I'm aware.
Me: Then why do it? If you know I don't like it, then why?
L: Because it's the internet.
Me: That's not an excuse!
L: I come online to enjoy myself, not to waste time and energy engaging in pointless and tedious arguments with you over the slightest thing I say that displeases you.
Me: Then why do it?
L: Why? You think I enjoy this stupidity I find myself embroilled in almost every time I go online?
Me: If you did not do it then I'd have no reason to believe it
L: are you going to keep this going?
Me: Are you?
L: Is it not obvious?
Me: You're acting as if you won't stop...
L: You think I won't stop?
Me: Yes
L: I don't even want to start
Me: Then why cause it to start?
L: It's not intentional.
Me: How not? You should know by now what angers me
L: I say nothing with the intent of getting a reaction out of you.
Me: Oh? Then why do it?
L: If you nothing positive to say to me, I'll be off now. I've got things to get back to.
Me: I want answers!
L: You'll need to wait untill I want to give you them.
Good night, Miss Detective.



PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2010 4:47 pm
I've been friends with this guy, we'll call him L, for about six years. We met in primary school, we weren't really close, but we were still friends. In our first year in high school, we were pretty much inseperable. Our realtionship just went completly downhill in Second Year. He started insulting everything I liked. At first, I thought he was just playing around, but he kept doing it, so I asked him to stop. He just got worse and worse, then he finally insulted my role model, so I snapped, stomped on his foot and ran off crying.

Later on that year, my sister opened a forum, and in the roleplaying section, L opened a topic for an RP he'd thought of a few years back. Even though I was still angry at him for insulting my role model, I decided to help out, and made three characters for it. After I posted their profiles, L pretty much wet himself laughing and refered to them as the Mary-Sue trio. I will admit, they were quite Sue-ish, but his was a blatant self insert. I asked him how they were Sue-ish, he replied "They just are!" and never answered my questions.

After a few months, we somehow made up. I can't remember how it happened, but we were as close as we were the year before. That was until I met my role model one day, I got it autograph. I pretty much told everyone about this, and I was just really happy. Then, he dragged my mood down completly. He said he was self-harming.
My sister was pouring her heart out to him and I was giving him a lecture. He stopped talking for a while and me and my sister started arguing. Then he started laughing and said "You actually thought I was self-harming?!"
I got REALLY angry and slapped him. And he wondered why I got really angry and left.

We didn't talk for a while after that, but after a while, we started talking again. We weren't as close, but we still spoke. After we got into Third Year, we never saw each other, because I moved schools. I was talking to him on MSN, and he asked me why I wasn't going to school, I told him it was because I moved. After that, he was worse than ever. He started to insult my friends. I've actually never been more annoyed at him when he did that. I can't stand people I love being insulted like that. . After two months, he stopped insulting them, then moved onto insulting me. One day, when we were talking on MSN, he wouldn't stop insulting me, so I asked him why he was doing this to me, and the conversation went like this:
Spoiler: hide
L: And once again it seems you've nothing better to do than quiz me
Me: And you have nothing better to do than berate me..that's a surprise
L: If you don't enjoy it, which I doubt you do, don't give me a desire to do so.
Me: You shouldn't be doing it anyway,
L: I'm aware.
Me: Then why do it? If you know I don't like it, then why?
L: Because it's the internet.
Me: That's not an excuse!
L: I come online to enjoy myself, not to waste time and energy engaging in pointless and tedious arguments with you over the slightest thing I say that displeases you.
Me: Then why do it?
L: Why? You think I enjoy this stupidity I find myself embroilled in almost every time I go online?
Me: If you did not do it then I'd have no reason to believe it
L: are you going to keep this going?
Me: Are you?
L: Is it not obvious?
Me: You're acting as if you won't stop...
L: You think I won't stop?
Me: Yes
L: I don't even want to start
Me: Then why cause it to start?
L: It's not intentional.
Me: How not? You should know by now what angers me
L: I say nothing with the intent of getting a reaction out of you.
Me: Oh? Then why do it?
L: If you nothing positive to say to me, I'll be off now. I've got things to get back to.
Me: I want answers!
L: You'll need to wait untill I want to give you them.
Good night, Miss Detective.

After this conversation, I had adopted the nickname "Miss Detective."
I will admit, I wasn't exactly being polite, but he was acting as if he didn't know what made me get this angry and upset, but he keeps going on about how well he knows me.

About two weeks ago, he was looking for ideas for his RP, I was giving him some, but he wasn't responding to them. I asked him "Are you even listening to me?", he replied "To be honest, no. I never listen to you." I flipped out at him then logged off.

A few days later, after I had calmed down slightly, I asked him if we could finsh one of the roleplays we had because it ended suddenly. He said "When I get to that part in the game" (he's making a game for it on a RPG maker.) I told him this could take over a year because it happens near the end of the story, and I wouldn't be avaliable because I'd be going to college. He said "Are you serious? You're even younger than me!" I had to remind him that he was three DAYS younger than me and not three years. He asked me why I need to go to college next year, I told him I couldn't get all the qualifications I needed at the school I was at. He pretty much demanded that I went back to the school I was at, I told him that the reason why I left in the first place was because I hated the place. I hated the majority of the teachers because most of them hated me because I had my hair dyed bright red, I hated the majority of the students because they couldn't accept me because I was different from them. I hated the building, it was far too big, and the idiots of the school blocked the hallways, and made it almost impossible to get to class on time. Most of the teachers would shout at me for being late and refused to listen to me. They would just go "Walk faster" or "Push past them". I'm a 4ft 5 female who is built like a twig. I can't push past them, and I can't walk quicker because the other students are blocking the hallways. After I reminded L about this he just said "I don't care, just do it. It's better for everyone and you're too young to go to college."

One day im again face-to-face, and we talked about the RP, and he said "I have a plan for DGL (the name of the RP), but I want to keep it a secret". I asked him "Can you tell me? I'm actually quite interested." He replied "No! It's a secret, I won't tell you!". I said "If you weren't going to tell me then, why the hell did you bring it up?!" He didn't reply, and he tried to convince me to not kill one of my characters. His reason was "You spent so much time working on her, it would be a waste to get rid of her" OK, it sounds reasonable, but he hated her when I first posted her profile, her new one hasn't changed much, or at least it hasn't changed enough to change one's opinons on her. His reason for suddenly deciding he likes her is when he found out she was blonde. He has a very frightining fetish for blondes. He keeps hiding secrets from me, so I quit all the RPs he made for a number of reasons. I made a journal about it.

So,, he opened the RP again, and the reason why he opened it was the procastination issue. But his opening line was quite rude..."Alright, after much procrastinating and a certain someone who shall not be named at this point leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Honestly L, is it really hard to type: "Alright, after much procrastinating and The Eleventh Doctor (my username on that site) leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Seriously, mate, it makes you seem less rude, but I am one of the very few people who stands up to his crap. One of my other friends can't stand him either, and she stands up to him, and he bitched about her for about an hour claiming "Her only good quality is her looks!". I found that really offensive, M is a lovely girl who's personality matches her looks, she's beautiful, and I don't usually say that about girls. Ok, I rambled a bit there.....anyway, back to the topic at hand... I spoke to him on MSN after a long break, this is what happened to begin with:
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Me: Y'know the problems in DGL weren't so bad they needed a new topic.
L: Meh. I just felt like starting over again. I know it's such a cop out and all, but... I just think that I should start over,
I'm just dissatisfied with it again.
Me: It was fine, a few adjustments would've sorted it.
L: But I'm coming up with new templates.
Me: Yet again, the last ones were fine.
There was no need to change them.


Anyhoo, we started talking about pointless crap, even though I was rather relucant.
To kill time, I went offline for a while to watch Glee on CHannel 4. I missed almost all of it, so I had to watch it again on C4 +1. When I came back online, an hour and a half later, I asked him if he had finsihed the templates yet, he said no, and pretty much said he was procastinating. I told him not to procastinate. This is what happened:
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PostPosted: Fri May 28, 2010 11:11 pm
OK, I haven't blocked him, but I haven't been talking to him at all, in hope that he'd realize what

he has done. About two weeks ago, I actually met him again face-to-face, and we talked about the RP, and he said "I have a plan for DGL (the name of the RP), but I want to keep it a secret". I asked him "Can you tell me? I'm actually quite interested." He replied "No! It's a secret, I won't tell you!". I said "If you weren't going to tell me then, why the hell did you bring it up?!" He didn't reply, and he tried to convince me to not kill one of my characters. His reason was "You spent so much time working on her, it would be a waste to get rid of her" OK, it sounds reasonable, but he hated her when I first posted her profile, her new one hasn't changed much, or at least it hasn't changed enough to change one's opinons on her. His reason for suddenly deciding he likes her is when he found out she was blonde. He has a very frightining fetish for blondes. He keeps hiding secrets from me, so I quit all the RPs he made for a number of reasons. I made a journal about it.
Here be the journal.


So, last week, he opened the RP again, and the reason why he opened it was the procastination issue. But his opening line was quite rude..."Alright, after much procrastinating and a certain someone who shall not be named at this point leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Honestly L, is it really hard to type: "Alright, after much procrastinating and The Eleventh Doctor (my username on that site) leaving the project, I've decided to start seriously. I will strive to make DGL even better than the last two times." Seriously, mate, it makes you seem less rude, but I am one of the very few people who stands up to his crap. One of my other friends can't stand him either, and she stands up to him, and he bitched about her for about an hour claiming "Her only good quality is her looks!". I found that really offensive, M is a lovely girl who's personality matches her looks, she's beautiful, and I don't usually say that about girls. Ok, I rambled a bit there.....anyway, back to the topic at hand... I spoke to him on MSN after a long break, this is what happened to begin with:
Spoiler: hide
Me: Y'know the problems in DGL weren't so bad they needed a new topic.
L: Meh. I just felt like starting over again. I know it's such a cop out and all, but... I just think that I should start over,
I'm just dissatisfied with it again.
Me: It was fine, a few adjustments would've sorted it.
L: But I'm coming up with new templates.
Me: Yet again, the last ones were fine.
There was no need to change them.


Anyhoo, we started talking about pointless crap, even though I was rather relucant.
To kill time, I went offline for a while to watch Glee on CHannel 4. I missed almost all of it, so I had to watch it again on C4 +1. When I came back online, an hour and a half later, I asked him if he had finsihed the templates yet, he said no, and pretty much said he was procastinating. I told him not to procastinate. This is what happened:
Spoiler: hide
L:What does it matter to you anyhow? You did quit after all
M:Did you even read my journal on DA?
L: Yes
Me: You seem to be trying to fix one of the problems, you didn't give a damn before
People are indecisive.
What do you hope to accomplish by saying this anyway?
M: ONe question, did Sheena talk to you about this procastination issue?
L: No.
She didn't care.
M: Well, judging from past experiences, she did mention it, and you fixed it to please her.
L: When did she mention it?
When? I certainly don't remember.
If you think that's why I'm doing this, you're sorely mistaken
M: I just have a very strong feeling about it.
SHe does go your house far more than I do, that gives her a time span to do so.
L: But she doesn't
Unlike you, she's pretty lax about the whole thing
M: She does go to your house far more than me, I can't remember the last time I was at your house.
It was definitely at least a year ago.
L: That's true.
If you came down, I have no doubt that all you'd do is chastise me for procrastinating.
M: I'm angry at you for a completely different reason.
L: You're never anything but angry at me
M: You're acting as if I'm angry at you for procastinating, I will admit I'm annoyed at you for that, but I'm not angry as such.
L: Well, what is that different reason?
And don't waste my time.
I could be using this time to finish up the claims topic.
So this better be worth my time.
M: Well, everytime you ever do anything that makes me angry, upset ect...you never apologize. The worst one was after I met John Barrowman....when you lied about self-harming. But of course that isn't worth you time. Obviously my apparent friendship to you isn't important, otherwise you would've apologized by now.
L: You get angry far too easily.
M: What?! You're saying that I'm too easiler angered, after you lied about a very serious problem after one of the best days of my life?
L: Yes. I am.
M: How would you feel if SHeena did something like that to you?
L: That would mildly upset me.
But nothing that would make me angyr
M: It's not what you did that's the biggest problem, it's the fact that you haven't apologized to me in 6 bloody years.
L: It wasn't 6 years ago.
It was 2 years ago
M: We met 6 years ago, and I met John last year
L: *sigh* You just can't let anything go, can you?
M: So you have no intention of ever apologizing to me?
L: I'd thought there'd be no need and that you'd be smart enough not to bear grudges.
M: There you go, insulting my intelligence again.
L: You should be able to let bygons be bygons.
M: I usually do if the person apologizes to me, tries to refrain from hurting me again, and doesn't insult my intelligence.
L: That's a shame.
I don't have anything more to say to you today.


And then he logged off...he didn't even seem remotley sorry at all...there was just some small part of me that hoped that he had changed back to same kid I knew when I was 12...but I was mistaken..I felt like a foolishly foolish fool....
Also, when we were talking about useless crap, he asked if I'd seen LittleKuriboh's video "LEather Pants". I said yes. He said that us two should do that to my sister. I was against the idea, as a whole, but then he came with this gem "And Sheena will be in her underpants in the middle of the street!"

This is what happened when I asked for my apology again
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Yatagarasu: Oh yes, I almost forgot.
2 Jun 10, 20:10
Yatagarasu: My apology for your behaviour, I expect you to give me it. Via MSN or PM.
Silver: Don't expect it any time soon.
Silver: Consider yourself lucky if I even humour you and write such a thing.
Silver: Honestly, the very idea is absurd.
Silver: Honestly, what makes you believe I'll comply with your demands?
Silver: How is it going to benefit me in the long run?
Yatagarasu: Why is it so hard for you to apologize?!
Yatagarasu: Am I really that worthless to you?
Silver: Why would you think you are worthless to me?
Silver: I never said anything about worth.
Silver: Almost every time we talk on MSN, I seem to say something that you take offense to.
<insert Sister trying to hide our arguing because it makes our 3 active member forum bad>
Yatagarasu: SHeena, making the converstation between me and Silver will not solve the problem, it's ceasefire
Yatagarasu: And I think that I'm worthless to you because you refuse to apologize to me! I don't care if you think it's trivial! If you've hurt someone, whether you think it's a big problem or not, you apologize.
Yatagarasu: It's common courtesy.
Silver: Oh come off it! You let nothing go, you've done plenty to hurt me but I don't hound you for an apology. I don't bear grudges. No good comes from them.
Silver: Just let the damn thing go. Both of us are far too stubborn to reach an agreement.
Silver: It's going to keep on going because neither side will give in.
Silver: No matter what I say though, you'll continue to hound me.


After my sister spoke to him about his attitude, he sent a fake apology e-mail.
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Look, whatever it is that's got you so pissed, I apologize profusely.... I really do not know why I've changed into such an akward person. I do value your friendship, but I'm no good with expressing at. It's not something I do intentionally. I honestly can't describe in words how I feel right now. I've just been so stressed lately.... You haven't done much, the only thing that hurt was that you'd keep on going after me and the arguing... it's too much for me. I just can't cope with that sort of thing for great deals of time. That's probably why I kept disappearing, waiting untill I thought you'd calmed down and came back trying to start small talk. There is no excuse for my rudeness towards you, thus I have nothing to say in my own defense.

I know that I don't deserve your respect, your forgiveness or even your friendship, but I hope that I can at least make this moment of extreme foolishness and downright assholery on my part disappear. I would like nothing more than for us to return to being the friends we once were. I know this won't make what I've said in the past that's hurt you so deeply disappear; but hey, Actions speak louder than words, right?

Anyways, I digress. Can you forgive me? If I say anything that bothers you, tell me immediately and I'll do whatever I can to change it.

Sincerely,
L

It seemed genuine, but I knew there was something off about it. For me, it was too perfect.
I replied to it
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Not meaning to sound weird, but you've used those reasons a lot, especially the one about being stressed. I can see how you find it hard to express friendship, but the things you've done makes me think the last thing we are are friends. I only kept going on at you because you DIDN'T apologize, you said it was a trivial matter. So to be brutally honest, you brought the stress from that on yourself. I'm a bit suspicious about when you changed your mind...it was after Sheena spoke to you about it. And you said that I've done plenty to hurt you. You were acting as if it was on the same levels, or that they were worse, as the things you've done to me.

I really don't think things to back to what they were, trust is one of the hardest things in the world to fix.

Also, not to sound picky, but I did ask you to apologize in person. It's a lot easier to say sorry over the internet, and it's hard to tell if you actually mean it, in person, it's easier to tell by tone of voice, body language, etc...

This apology seems far too perfect to me, might just be my imagination, but it seems too perfect. It seems like you've said everything that I want to hear..but yet again, it might be my imagination.


After this, he was being far too nice, almost like he was trying far too hard to get on my good side, and about a month later, he went straight back to berating me, and aftewards, tried to act like nothing had happened.

I'm giving him one more chance, and if he messes up again, he can bugger the hell off.

Wow. That kid's a dick. Reminds me an ex-friend of mine... But before I get into that, may I bring to your attention that ir seemed to repeat itself at some points? (Not trying to sound rude. Just letting you know)
Spoiler: Ex-Friend of mine...
So in middle school, before I ended the tedious process of Tyler abusing me ie pushing me out of my chair in science just because he's a dick faux-friendship with Tyler I made a friend. His name is Billy. He was always happy. Now me and Billy were in Reading and Math together. We didn't ever talk in Math. Dunno. It was a weird class. But in Reading we would be partners for everything. So we were best friends, me, Billy and Tom (who is still my friend). We hung out all summer. Though it was always at my house which they now constantly mock >_>).

In seventh grade, Billy seemed different. First day of school, he already got into a screaming-death-threats-at-kids-rage. He was always angry. He would yell at people literally most of the day. The teachers, quite honestly, ignored him. After a month it got old. Anyways, he did this all the way until November 22nd. Then a kid named Cody, well, to put it metaphorically, threw the flare into the gas station. In lunch that day, he was throwing pieces of the under-cooked chicken that's served daily at Billy. Since Billy was my friend, I went over to Cody and asked him to stop. He slapped the shit outta my face, earning some "Ooh!"s and "Ouch!" es and even a few "That poor kid!"s out of the table of hot girls. Since I'm calm and laidback, I let it slide. I just walked away. Billy, on the other hand, runs over and beats the living hell out of Cody. He hit him with trays of food, he punched him, kicked him, and threw a chair at him. And at first I thought "Holy shit! FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!". Later I thought "Did he do that because Cody hit me?" I asked him, and Billy, telling the complete and utter truth, says "I did that because he got some chicken in my food."

In eighth grade, I've had it with Billy. Everything he did was only to degrade me. Mocking my house as loud as possible, trying to push me down the stairs, pushing me into a creek (I had no extra clothes, my DS in my pocket, and the water was cold as balls). He even started trying to beat me up. Honestly, he poses no threat to me. He jumped on my back and I jumped backwards against the lockers. But in tech, he tried putting my hands through the saws.

He'd completely changed after the fight in the lunchroom. Everything I did pissed him off, while he was God's gift. He could do anything and "not got in trouble because the teachers love me!" Haha. Yea. More like you did everything where no one of authority could see you. And he wants to be a criminal. Bah! He's afraid to use an emulator. Hell, he won't even download music because "since I have an older iPod, iTunes probably made it illegal to download anything onto it."

Basically, he became a raging moron. And he blamed it on "stress" and his sister. Honestly, I kinda believe the latter might have contributed a little bit. Annoying as hell, she is.
Oh, I forgot the best part! He would, as loud as possible, talk about the most inappropriate things. Such as "I'm so gonna get a girlfriend before I leave high-school and I'm gonna fuck the brains outta her!" And he would have one-sided arguments with me about how his (empty) lovelife was way more successful than my (admittedly empty) lovelife. And one-sided comparisons of penis-length. Thank god I learned to tune him out.

And I was faking a friendship quite well until a couple of days ago when Billy's dumbshit sister walks up to my dumbass sister and says "I heard Andrew and Billy got in a fight." (Which I haven't even heard of) My sister replies "Yea. My brother pretty much hates your brother."

And to this day, over three years later, people still talk about the throwing of the chair.
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I have ex-friends, quite a few. but most of them were because we drifted apart. There is one that was over a lot of arguments. He still thinks we're BFFs.

Spoiler: Very long rant, if you get through it, there will be cookies.
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Your friend sounds like a psycho. Either that or he has a desperate crush on you and can only express his feelings the best way he knows how... by being a psycho.

In either case, I'd avoid him like the plague until he stops bouncing between apathy and temporary memory loss and finally gets his shit together. Real friends don't put each other through that kind of unnecessary drama.

Incidentally, your post repeats in parts, but I think you might have just accidentally hit the copy/paste buttons one too many times.
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Naoto_Shirogane wrote:
I have ex-friends, quite a few. but most of them were because we drifted apart. There is one that was over a lot of arguments. He still thinks we're BFFs.

Spoiler: Very long rant, if you get through it, there will be cookies.
--snipped for space--

--AiB


Your friend sounds like a psycho. Either that or he has a desperate crush on you and can only express his feelings the best way he knows how... by being a psycho.

In either case, I'd avoid him like the plague until he stops bouncing between apathy and temporary memory loss and finally gets his shit together. Real friends don't put each other through that kind of unnecessary drama.


Agreed through and through. L has issues, and be them for romantic/weird/completely NO reasons, he's being completely out of order.

So, I suppose it's my turn. Of course there've been quite a few friendship break ups throughout high school, but this one person has a particular significance, for some reason.

Spoiler: Nadindi's rant.
So, when I was 11, in my first year of High School (British high school, that is), I managed to become fast friends with a boy we'll be calling W. We somehow managed to immediately click - my best friend K already knew him from some holiday club that they both went to, and he managed to quickly secure a place in my mind as one of the most hilarious people I've ever met. His mannerisms were quirky and annoying, but they defined his character. For example, he had the most high pitched, loud laugh you may ever hear in a boy, but his voice was actually one of the first to break.

Even when my best friend moved to Ireland when we were all about 13, me and W remained close friends. We were practically inseparable - we would sit in the back of Maths class and gossip, telling and sharing secrets despite getting constantly told off by our teacher.

However, once we were about 14, the 'popular' clique started getting closer to W. I wasn't worried or jealous, because I was practically skintight with my other friends, so I left him to his own thing. We were still really close, and he even managed to tell me, and only me, that he thought he might be gay. I helped him through all of that worry, helped him come out of the closet, and life went on.

But about a year later, we all found out that he had picked up smoking. Me and my friends have always had this steadfast belief and almost unspoken promise to one another that we would never do anything stupid like smoke, do drugs or self harm. So of course, we all expressed out disappointment to W, but he completely flipped out, saying that we weren't accepting him for who he was.

There were a few months where we had drifted slightly apart, but then me and W started sharing ICT lessons together. We got talking again, and soon enough we were friends again, laughing and joking and getting yelled at all over again. We were once again inseparable, but my friends still didn't quite trust him. After all, he had disappointed them, and they never had been as close to him as me.

But then we found out that he had been doing weed as well. This time, it was me who flipped out completely. I thought it would be something that he would have at least told me about, or apologised for - he knew that I would have accepted it. It was the fact that we only found out by seeing him behind the train station with the 'populars' smoking it. He yelled back, saying that I had no right to be angry, which was bullshit because he knew exactly that it could have been avoided by just telling us.

We drifted apart again, but this time we didn't make up. He pretty much never hangs around with my circle any more, choosing instead to be with the 'popular' people and smoke, tobacco and weed on occasion. And to be quite frank, I couldn't care less any more. Sure, I do care about him, but if he chooses to do that to his body, so be it.

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Spoiler: Nadindi's rant.
So, when I was 11, in my first year of High School (British high school, that is), I managed to become fast friends with a boy we'll be calling W. We somehow managed to immediately click - my best friend K already knew him from some holiday club that they both went to, and he managed to quickly secure a place in my mind as one of the most hilarious people I've ever met. His mannerisms were quirky and annoying, but they defined his character. For example, he had the most high pitched, loud laugh you may ever hear in a boy, but his voice was actually one of the first to break.

Even when my best friend moved to Ireland when we were all about 13, me and W remained close friends. We were practically inseparable - we would sit in the back of Maths class and gossip, telling and sharing secrets despite getting constantly told off by our teacher.

However, once we were about 14, the 'popular' clique started getting closer to W. I wasn't worried or jealous, because I was practically skintight with my other friends, so I left him to his own thing. We were still really close, and he even managed to tell me, and only me, that he thought he might be gay. I helped him through all of that worry, helped him come out of the closet, and life went on.

But about a year later, we all found out that he had picked up smoking. Me and my friends have always had this steadfast belief and almost unspoken promise to one another that we would never do anything stupid like smoke, do drugs or self harm. So of course, we all expressed out disappointment to W, but he completely flipped out, saying that we weren't accepting him for who he was.

There were a few months where we had drifted slightly apart, but then me and W started sharing ICT lessons together. We got talking again, and soon enough we were friends again, laughing and joking and getting yelled at all over again. We were once again inseparable, but my friends still didn't quite trust him. After all, he had disappointed them, and they never had been as close to him as me.

But then we found out that he had been doing weed as well. This time, it was me who flipped out completely. I thought it would be something that he would have at least told me about, or apologised for - he knew that I would have accepted it. It was the fact that we only found out by seeing him behind the train station with the 'populars' smoking it. He yelled back, saying that I had no right to be angry, which was bullshit because he knew exactly that it could have been avoided by just telling us.

We drifted apart again, but this time we didn't make up. He pretty much never hangs around with my circle any more, choosing instead to be with the 'popular' people and smoke, tobacco and weed on occasion. And to be quite frank, I couldn't care less any more. Sure, I do care about him, but if he chooses to do that to his body, so be it.


No offense Nads but all he's doing is smoking and smoking weed, it's not like he's snorting coke. I know people who smoke weed and no I don't do it myself but it's their choice. And if you all had this agreement on not doing anything like that, I'm not surprised he didn't tell you, he was probably scared of your reactions.
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Nadindi wrote:
Spoiler: Nadindi's rant.
So, when I was 11, in my first year of High School (British high school, that is), I managed to become fast friends with a boy we'll be calling W. We somehow managed to immediately click - my best friend K already knew him from some holiday club that they both went to, and he managed to quickly secure a place in my mind as one of the most hilarious people I've ever met. His mannerisms were quirky and annoying, but they defined his character. For example, he had the most high pitched, loud laugh you may ever hear in a boy, but his voice was actually one of the first to break.

Even when my best friend moved to Ireland when we were all about 13, me and W remained close friends. We were practically inseparable - we would sit in the back of Maths class and gossip, telling and sharing secrets despite getting constantly told off by our teacher.

However, once we were about 14, the 'popular' clique started getting closer to W. I wasn't worried or jealous, because I was practically skintight with my other friends, so I left him to his own thing. We were still really close, and he even managed to tell me, and only me, that he thought he might be gay. I helped him through all of that worry, helped him come out of the closet, and life went on.

But about a year later, we all found out that he had picked up smoking. Me and my friends have always had this steadfast belief and almost unspoken promise to one another that we would never do anything stupid like smoke, do drugs or self harm. So of course, we all expressed out disappointment to W, but he completely flipped out, saying that we weren't accepting him for who he was.

There were a few months where we had drifted slightly apart, but then me and W started sharing ICT lessons together. We got talking again, and soon enough we were friends again, laughing and joking and getting yelled at all over again. We were once again inseparable, but my friends still didn't quite trust him. After all, he had disappointed them, and they never had been as close to him as me.

But then we found out that he had been doing weed as well. This time, it was me who flipped out completely. I thought it would be something that he would have at least told me about, or apologised for - he knew that I would have accepted it. It was the fact that we only found out by seeing him behind the train station with the 'populars' smoking it. He yelled back, saying that I had no right to be angry, which was bullshit because he knew exactly that it could have been avoided by just telling us.

We drifted apart again, but this time we didn't make up. He pretty much never hangs around with my circle any more, choosing instead to be with the 'popular' people and smoke, tobacco and weed on occasion. And to be quite frank, I couldn't care less any more. Sure, I do care about him, but if he chooses to do that to his body, so be it.


No offense Nads but all he's doing is smoking and smoking weed, it's not like he's snorting coke. I know people who smoke weed and no I don't do it myself but it's their choice. And if you all had this agreement on not doing anything like that, I'm not surprised he didn't tell you.


I guess you've got a point. But I think it's more the trust factor - for example, by now he might actually have done something worse than weed, but we wouldn't know. Though I guess my circle of friends, myself included, may just be butthurt about the whole thing because we generally are all goody-two-shoes. Oh well.
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Since this is for buds too I tell a short rant. . .
Spoiler: my bud
He used to be a funny, normal and hatealbe guy. One of his traits was that he always gotta be the one who wins an argument, even though you had won, however that ain't the problem about him. The real problem occured when he had to retake a class. He went to an other school and got the change to learn properly (sounds weird I know). Since then, his attitude changed like 180 degrees. He used to go to sleep at, I around 2 AM or so, now he goes to bed at around 9 pm (he is 17 years old and turns 18 this November). This still ain't the main issue, I mean everyone can go to sleep when he wants, but it stretched out on the weekends, so if he visits ya he goes home very early which quite pissed me off. Also he turned into a "better person", like he thinks that he is something better than a friend of mine and me, the epic thing is that he fly off school after being a "better person". A little extra point is that he doubted me to have stolen his Nintendo Ds. He based that deduction due to the fact that my and his ds are both black >_>. This may sounds weird to some and kinda stupid, but you actually need to know him to get why he is that hateable

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I mainly just "drift away" from friends.
However, I was close friends with my ex before we started going out.
But of course, he had to turn into a complete and total douche bagandnotevercallmeand
insteadcallmybestfriendandpronouncehisundyinglove
forherinsteadandtalkshitbehindmybackoverthemoststupidandidioticthingsthat
REALLYshouldn'thavebeensuchabigdealtohimandnotto
mentionhesuddenlybecome"uninteristed"wheniwouldn'tkisshimthefirstgoddamndaywest
artedgoingoutbutheyitshisloss.

So I dumped him. I don't even talk to him anymore. Instead I'm here with all of you fine people.:3
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